Subtly touching a woman

Actions speak louder than words, hold her hand or give her a kiss

It is much better than just saying "I like you" - because your action at best represents an impulse of your behavior, and you have a lot of room to retreat, while your serious confession represents a solemn promise of unbearable lightness. Unfortunately, many people still don’t understand this. So how do you properly engage in physical contact on a date?

(1) Physical contact should be present throughout the interaction with girls. And, the sooner the better.

If you don't do it early enough, and take it slow later, it's easy for girls to think you have ulterior motives and give you a "past good guy card", and then pass you up after comparing you to your current wretched self.

(2) Pay attention to the “push and pull” techniques

For example: hold the other person's hand and read its palm, then throw it away after a few seconds and say something about freezing the palm. Then he took her hand back, rubbed it a few times, and then threw it away. Taking her hand is "pulling", throwing her hand is "pushing".

For example: put your arm around your shoulders (pull them closer), say "I just realized that you are a bad guy" (disqualified lines), and use your hands to push your shoulders away from you. This is push and pull, which is a potential way of flirting. After being pushed out by you, a woman will subconsciously want to be pulled in again and will be very receptive to your next touch.

(3) Contact should be gradual from light to deep

Mild contact:

Nice hair style today. (Pat your head and touch your hair while speaking)

The earrings are so delicate. (While talking, he would play with the earrings and ask about their materials, or throw them as birthday presents and ask where they were bought)

Show me what time it is. (He grabs her arm while speaking, and immediately lets go of her arm after reading it)

Be careful XXX……. (Hold her waist close to your body, then push her waist out. Note that you should push it out, not slowly lower your hands from her waist)

You were so cute when you were so clumsy just now (squeeze both sides of her face, push them towards the middle, and then throw them away), just like Crayon Shin-chan!

Deep contact:

A bear hug cannot be sudden. It must be prefaced by previous movements. The bear hug should be quick, without hesitation. Hesitation would be vulgar.

There are several ways to do a bear hug: 1. Hug from the side. 2. Hug from behind. 3. Hold the baby from the front.

Bear Hug Reference:

1. I think I'm fatter than in the photo (+ bear hug)

2. You want to pull me, right? Believe it or not, I can lift you up with just one finger (extend your little finger to signal her to grab it + suddenly give her a bear hug. This is not cheating, this is flirting, this is what flirting is like)

3. Regardless of the consequences, hold her hand or arm, run quickly, go up and down the stairs quickly, squeeze into the crowd, etc. (Note that when you are done, you must let her go. You must let her go or push her away. You cannot let her go slowly over time.)

Note: Upgrade to deep physical advances. If the girl feels natural or has no objection, or even shows interest, you can kiss her. Go for it bravely without hesitation.

It is easiest to kiss a girl when she punches you, or when you push and pull her and flirt with her and play with her. Prepare 2 routines to provoke her with punches or to arouse her emotions and play with you. Then hug her and say, "You are a bad person" or "You talk too much", and then kiss her directly.

Note, when kissing, if the girl responds well, kiss her a few more times, if not, push her away as soon as possible (no matter what the response is, you should take the initiative to push her away, so that you are DHV, and you are very attractive to her), say: "Okay, we are moving too fast" or "Your technique is poor... This is how it should be" or end: "The get out of class is over now!" or "A good boy is more suitable for you."

So besides these contacts, how can you make it more fun for girls to be with you?

1. Create emotional fluctuations and induce jealousy.

Women usually cannot tolerate that something that originally belongs to them is taken by others. When you chat and laugh in an ambiguous way with other women, it may cause the target to become jealous.

2. Take her to do something exciting and adventurous.

For example, outdoor adventures, bungee jumping, picking quarrels with others in front of her (you can ask your friends to role-play this), etc.

In short, you have to change her inherent "prejudice" about you and let her discover your "sexy" side in a pleasant surprise. This will give her a chance to come to a new evaluation of you: you are not only her "spiritual" Plato, but also a charming man who exudes charming "male hormones" all over your body.