8 body languages ​​to win a man's heart

When men and women get along, body language often becomes women's most lethal "ultimate weapon". Chris Ulrich, senior coach at the Body Language Academy, said, "Body language is not about what actions you make, but what value the other person feels from your actions." This reminds female compatriots that when they are on a date, instead of racking their brains to think of conversation topics, they might as well try to capture a man's heart with body language.

1. Smile. Chris Ulrich says, "When you meet a man you're interested in and shake his hand to say hello, a woman will smile from the bottom of her heart." This smile will convey to men a feeling that it is specially prepared for him.

2. Don’t cross your arms. "Scientific research shows that crossing your arms is not conducive to problem solving," said Chris Ulrich. Crossing your arms is also a big taboo when men and women are dating. "Crossing your arms can make a woman appear closed off and communicate that she is not interested in the man she is interacting with. It can also unconsciously create a barrier that makes a woman difficult to approach."

3. Make sure your belly buttons are facing each other. Make sure your belly button is pointing towards your male partner. "When a woman is around a man she likes, admires, and trusts, her belly button will typically be pointed toward him," says Chris Ulrich, even if the woman's head is turned the other way. Although this is a natural move, remember to try to keep your belly button facing the man when you are looking at or talking to him when he is not directly in front of you. Just turn your body more and point it more directly toward the man you like.

4. Touch your male partner more. Chris Ulrich said: "Touch is really important in dating. We know that when men and women touch to show intimacy, both their heart rates increase. It may be a little inappropriate to have physical touch on a first date, but it works great on a second date."

5. Increase eye contact. Chris Ulrich believes that "in relationships between men and women, if you want to maintain intimacy, more eye contact is a sign of mutual attraction." Women can make more eye contact and touch the other person from time to time, so that it will be difficult for men to escape from your "palm."

6. Stand in the center when standing side by side. When standing side by side with friends, women may as well stand quietly in the middle, which can attract more attention from men. "It creates the effect that you're the center of attention," says Chris Ulrich. People's eyes naturally gravitate to the center of a scene as the focal point. Therefore, if female friends want to attract the attention of their male partners, they should make full use of this point.

7. Grab a hot drink. Studies show that people with cold drinks in hand are more self-absorbed. But Chris Ulrich pointed out, "If a woman is holding a hot drink or a goblet, she will pay more attention to men; while a woman holding a cold drink will be less likely to look around and look for a male companion to chat with."

8. Don’t lean forward with your head down. Studies have shown that when women slump their heads forward, their cortisol levels increase and their testosterone levels decrease. Cortisol is the stress hormone, while testosterone can increase a person's risk-taking. Therefore, some experts suggest that you can adopt a "strong posture" at important moments, which can increase testosterone levels and reduce stress. You can place your hands on your hips and separate your feet by more than 15 cm. When women are going on an important date, they might as well adopt a "powerful posture" for a short period of time. It will not only relieve stress but also make them more attractive to their male partners.