As a wife, you must tolerate your husband's thoughts.

In modern society, men are under increasing pressure in their social lives, especially in highly competitive jobs. Promotions, salary increases, client development, etc. all put men in a state of tension all the time. So many men use sex to ease their emotions. In addition, when an emotional crisis occurs between a couple, men often hope to reduce the conflict through physical intimacy, but this approach is often not understood by their wives. Instead, they think that they are being used as a tool for the man to vent his emotions, and thus develop a sense of disgust.

In fact, men are very fragile in most cases. Their low emotions need to be released and they desire to be understood. Therefore, when you know this psychological state of a man, when he is at a low point, take the initiative to approach him, encourage him, listen to his confession, and then give him gentle comfort and hug as a woman, which will deepen the relationship between husband and wife.

Sexual ability needs to be praised

In the life of a couple, no matter whether the man is thin or strong, they often have a kind of worry. They will doubt their sexual ability for no reason. They don't know whether they can be regarded as "Mr. Macho", and they are worried that their wife will underestimate their performance. At this point, if there is a lack of communication between the couple, the man will be even less likely to get the affirmation he expects, and will become even more confused and helpless. On the contrary, if a woman can give a man positive encouragement and praise him with words like "You are really great", "You make me very happy", etc., then the man will become very confident and will work harder to show his masculine charm, thereby making the woman happier.

Don't like being treated like a child

A woman's motherhood is often seen as a kind of beauty by men. He may need you to care about his well-being and take care of his daily life like a mother. However, if you treat him as a child in your married life, it will be difficult for him to treat you sexually, and the maternal characteristics at this time will weaken your sexual attractiveness as a woman. So, be sure to remember that, not his mother.

You need to take the initiative to "attack"

Although men are willing to be the protagonists in married life, they also hope to have the active cooperation of women. Almost 90 percent of men said: "If she could act a little wild sometimes, I would be more excited, and I think both of us would feel better that way." Therefore, women are free to actively express their sexual desires without worrying about being seen as promiscuous and too shy by men.

Masturbation is normal

Once a wife saw her husband masturbating by chance. She felt very disgusted and even thought that her husband was a pervert and a hooligan. In fact, both men and women may masturbate, and it does not necessarily disappear after marriage. Usually men have stronger sexual desire than women. If he cannot get satisfaction from his wife, he will occasionally resort to masturbation to solve the problem. As long as it is not too frequent, this behavior should not be blamed. As a wife, you should face this fact.

"Lecher" is a real man

Are men really lustful? Answer. You'll often find "signs" of their lust, such as when they're shopping and looking around at beautiful women on the street.

In life, many women express contempt for this kind of "face" in men, believing it to be a sign of lack of culture and pornography. In fact, "lust" is the true nature of men, but precisely because it is almost instinctive, it cannot be concluded as moral corruption. Women should be more tolerant of this and believe that men are just satisfying a visual enjoyment. This does not mean that they will be fickle in their emotions.

Mystery attracts him most.

If a woman's sexy body curves are faintly visible, and her shy and timid tenderness will have a huge appeal to men. However, after marriage, some women often ignore this point.

In fact, men lose their "sexual interest" in this kind of "confession". Because they are always willing to maintain their curiosity about women, which is why many husbands prefer their wives to wear thin pajamas rather than being naked.

Therefore, a sexy woman will always hide herself behind a veil of mystery, giving men an urge to reveal herself.