Chinese couples sex games

To have a smooth sex life, both men and women need to keep learning. It is also a science to know when to adopt what attitude when playing games. Correctly selecting selective games can not only increase the fun, but also make them healthier.

Sexual Position 1: Baby Games

Both husband and wife can pretend to be children and look at each other's bodies and sexual organs with great "curiosity"; they can also murmur like babies to stimulate each other's maternal or paternal love. The husband can lie in his wife's arms like a son and be "willful, naughty and wild", fiddling with and sucking his wife's nipples. For a wife without children, her husband's sucking melts her desire for future children into tenderness for her husband. For a wife who already has children, the gentle touch of her husband's lips evokes all kinds of happy memories of feeding her children in the past.

A wife can throw herself into her husband's arms like a daughter, act coquettishly and throw tantrums, seeking "protection and security". This will make her husband feel satisfied with being needed and arouse his desire to protect and love him. The wife can also do some charming actions to arouse her husband's sexual interest. In this regard, the ancient Chinese concluded that if a woman has a charming look, three or four points of beauty can be equivalent to six or seven points of beauty. Women who make people think about them endlessly and are willing to follow them at all costs often have a kind of "charm".

Sexual Position 2: Love Games

Couples can read some love works together, play the roles of the protagonists according to the story plot, and perform in the bedroom. You can also make up your own story or perform it based on your own romantic experience, which will arouse the interest of both parties. These "sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty" love experiences can deepen the couple's understanding of human love and cherish the beautiful feelings of both parties. When the spirits are high, once one party makes a sexual request, the other party will often respond positively.

3. Animal Games

Husband and wife imitate the movements of animals playing, fighting, and having sex and take turns performing them in front of each other, thereby making each other laugh, relaxing nerves that are tense due to other reasons, and maintaining a relaxed, happy and humorous mood. The book "He Yin Yang" unearthed from the No. 3 Han Tomb of Mawangdui in Changsha in 1973 discusses ten sexual intercourse movements that imitate animal play, and calls them the "Ten Sections".

These ten sections are the specific application of ancient bionics in sexual life. It believes that these ten movements can be used for playful teasing, and can also be imitated for sexual intercourse. It can be seen that the ancients studied the art of sex in order to make it scientific, artistic and entertaining. This is an important contribution of ancient Chinese people to world culture. Westerners highly praise this and regard it as an important way to renew the sexual life of couples. A researcher from the prestigious Kinsey Institute for Sex Research in the United States told me that Chinese people are now keen on translating and introducing Western lovemaking techniques. In fact, these people may not know that after research, some Western experts believe that more than half of the content of these lovemaking techniques originated from ancient China's ancient art of sex.

4. Naked Games

The couple can be naked, and either dance naked to the accompaniment of soft and romantic music; or lie in each other's arms, saying sweet words and caressing each other's bodies; or play a chess game, taking off a piece of clothing for each loss; they can also prepare some wine and food under soft lighting, and chat while eating and drinking. Don't let your eyes be idle while chatting. When necessary, she would lift the ends of her hair and help him wipe the food crumbs from his lips. Maybe this is just a night of pure heart-to-heart talk, or maybe it is a night of passion.

5. Fantasy Games

The difference between humans and animals is that humans have imagination. If there is no fantasy in sex life, sexual behavior will only become a series of monotonous and mechanical actions. Therefore, couples can imagine each other as a couple in love, or strangers who fall in love at first sight, and do various actions to tease each other. However, both husband and wife should establish the belief that "lust" only exists in shameless promiscuous intercourse outside of marriage, and there is no such thing as "lust" in marital sex. As early as the beginning of the 20th century, the famous sexologist Hamilton told us: "No matter what kind of sexual play, from a psychological standpoint, there is no taboo. There is nothing wrong with any intimate behavior between husband and wife.

Both parties should focus on the joyful and intimate emotional experience rather than worrying about whether it will lead to sexual intercourse. When one party has no desire for sexual intercourse, the other party should treat it as a unique sexual experience and not force it on the other party; when both parties are in high spirits, sexual intercourse will come naturally. In short, let everything take its course and focus on the process rather than the outcome.