Love is strong in bed and outside the bed

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Tip 1: Explore overlooked sexual opportunities

Your time is often taken up by work, children, and entertainment, and it seems not enough. But sex experts point out that the lack of undisturbed non-sleeping time that couples can spend together in bed may be part of the problem, mainly because couples are not making full and appropriate use of their time.

Step 1: If you have ten minutes available, have quick sex. It may sound rushed, but rushing into sex isn't necessarily a bad thing. In fact, many couples appreciate the stimulation brought by rapid sex, which can also create a sense of exclusive secrets between the two of them, especially before friends and family come over for dinner.

Step 2: As night falls, take out your diary and pen and write down the longer sexual activities you will have this week. Keep doing it every week.

Tip 2: Improve your caressing skills

After several years of marriage, frequent caressing of a partner can help to solidify the relationship better than frequent sex. Experts say: "Apart from having sex, many couples rarely touch each other affectionately, and they may feel awkward about it." Improving touch techniques is to eliminate all obstacles to achieving good lovemaking results.

Step 1: Seize the opportunity. Develop a habit of touching your partner, such as holding his hand during a movie, swiping your fingers up and down his upper arm while watching TV together, and giving him a kiss from time to time.

Step 2: Let him hug you. Many men said they would like to be touched by their wives more than by them, but they continue to send the message "Don't come near me." If a deep morning kiss smudges your lipstick, so be it. Reapplying your makeup is obviously insignificant compared to the unpleasant feeling you may have about not wanting to be around your husband.

Tip 3: Learn to express your wishes

Many men behave like ascetics in bed, trying their best to please you by covering every inch of your skin with sincere strength. If you want him to stay in a certain position, you should give him some instructions.

Step 1: Decide on a sensitive area where you like your husband to spend more time, and then say something like, "I really like the way you touch me," or "Don't stop." If you feel ashamed to say such things out of the blue, do it a few times until it feels natural. (If you are disgusted by those words, you can express your wishes by moaning.)

Step 2: When your husband meets your requirements, you must let him know. If he does something wrong, he should maintain a meaningful silence.

Tip 4: Expand your sex space

If your bed is the only place you two have sex, you may be missing out on the high sexual pleasure that can be achieved by having sex in other parts of the home.

Step 1: Start in the kitchen and consider utilizing all the delicious foods in your cupboards and refrigerator. This may lead you to places you have never been before.

Step 2: Repeat in every room. If you have experienced the feeling of having sex in the rocking chair in the bedroom, you can enter a deeper level of sex.

Tip 5: Never miss a fleeting opportunity

Many people get excited at home, but on the way to the bedroom, they are always distracted by many things and soon lose enthusiasm.

Experts point out that if you want to enjoy more and better sexual pleasure, you should act immediately when you are aroused.

Step-: When you feel your sexual desire rising, don't be distracted by other things. Stay focused and don't let your enthusiasm slip away.

Step 2: Do whatever you can to pick a place in your home where you can start.

Tip 6: Know when to bring up your sexual fantasies

Now that you've strengthened your sexual communication skills, you're ready to take your verbal skills to the next level: making special requests or sharing a one-night stand fantasy.

Step 1: Let your loved one know what you want, or write down what you are thinking on a note. Or try the bookmark technique: In a book of sexual fantasies, find a scene you want to "reenact," mark that section with a red pen, and place the book next to his bed.

Step 2: Tell him to read the passages before one of the scheduled dates so that he has enough time to absorb them thoroughly.

Tip 7: Understand the other party’s needs

There are actually many different variations of the kind of caressing that men like, and they themselves often seem helpless. In this section, he will show you what he likes, which is very instructive and exciting.

Step 1: When you ask him to demonstrate how he likes to have his penis stroked, he will usually feel embarrassed. You might as well communicate with him first. The key is that he must believe that you really want to see the demonstration, so that he won't be too awkward.

Step 2: Observe carefully how he becomes particularly excited. How fast does he thrust? How firmly does he hold on? The following parts are important: Does he continue thrusting throughout the entire climax, or does he stop before it comes? The next time you make love, put your observations to use to ensure that he is very satisfied.

Tip 8: Arouse sexual emotions

For couples with a good sexual relationship, the desire for intercourse is not accidental at all. They can have sex at any time even if there is no sexual stimulation in front of them.

Step 1: Compliment him. Generally speaking. When both men and women are complimented and pleased, they will be more enthusiastic about making love. The more specific you are, the more it will show that your evaluation comes from the heart.

Step 2: Create an atmosphere of eager anticipation. If you plan to have sex that night, try to convey your desire to take it off when you get dressed in the morning. As he's getting dressed, help him straighten his tie and slowly zip up his pants. Ask him to button your bra for you, letting your hair fall over his hands before he removes them from your back.

Tip 9: Try new sex methods

One day, you suddenly feel that the unchanging way of having sex is extremely boring. What should you do? If you dare to try, you will definitely get unexpected gains.

Step 1: Do some research and take the time to create an inspiring sex menu. You can refer to relevant books.

Step 2: Bring the menu to bed one night and read it with your husband, choosing and trying new sex techniques. Remember to keep your mind open and keep the book close at hand.

Tip 10: Plan your sex trip

Most people prefer to do the wildest things in the countryside, which makes sex special again.

Step 1: Sit down with your husband and plan an itinerary that you have never tried before and that is most arousing to you, perhaps just to create interest so that you two feel as close as lovers.

Step 2: Choose one of the options on the itinerary and bring it up again on the night of sex, or give him a surprise. The most important thing is to surprise your husband and make him enjoy the trip.