No one is perfect, everyone has good and bad sides. The same applies to your own friends. Perhaps some of you female friends have also had the experience of being verbally abused because of being careless in making friends. So, when will your friends make you want to break up with them immediately? What kind of people are easily identified as "pig teammates" and treated as "friends" by others? On January 3, the popular health website published an article to list the 7 characteristics of "bad friends" that are best to break up with immediately. Let's take a look! 1. Take the bad things you have done as your pride For example, some people will regard the bad things they have done as their glorious history, and will not help but show off in front of others, such as "Actually, I was unfaithful when I was in love with my boyfriend before," "I used to be a mistress," "I stole things from a convenience store before," and so on. When we meet people who are "not ashamed but proud" of their dark history, we often feel helpless and think "What is there to brag about?" "Is it really okay to tell people about such things?" "What a mysterious self-confidence, why are they so complacent?" "When we meet such people, it is better to pretend not to know them." In many cases, the embarrassing words said by your bad friend will make you feel embarrassed. In order to prevent this from happening again, it is better to cut off ties with him as soon as possible and stop being his friend. 2. Often wasting other people’s time It is said that "wasting other people's time is equivalent to stealing their lives". Even if you are a friend, you should not waste other people's time casually. However, some people like to suddenly decide not to go out on the day they have made an appointment to go out together; or they are always ten minutes late every time they make an appointment to meet. This kind of person seems to believe that he is the center of the world, and thinks that as long as it is convenient for him, it doesn't matter what happens to others. In their eyes, other people's time is never as important as their own time. For such people, my advice is to "cherish your life and break up with them as soon as possible." 3. Frequently belittling others This kind of bad friend often says things that belittle others. For example, after shopping, he complains, "That supermarket cashier is so disgusting," which makes you wonder in your heart, "How much hatred does he have against you?" This kind of person always takes pleasure in belittling others and uses it to enhance his or her sense of superiority. Occasionally, when talking to you, he or she will speak in a condescending tone, which makes people uncomfortable. 4. You tend to be jealous of others This kind of person has an overwhelming sense of superiority and therefore hates having someone above him or her. They will not hesitate to attack anyone who threatens their status. In addition to deliberately finding fault, they will also spread rumors about the other party. In order to prevent myself from becoming their enemy one day, I have to be very careful with what I say. 5. Inability to accept other people’s values This kind of person will deny anything he cannot understand, and sometimes will even criticize opinions he does not like. In their minds, any viewpoint that does not conform to their own understanding is wrong, and anyone who has different ideas from them is a weirdo. In order to prevent yourself from being infected with this bad habit, it is better to break up with the person as soon as possible. 6. Too much self-esteem The characteristic of this type of person is that their self-esteem is easily hurt, and they will fly into a rage whenever they feel their self-esteem is frustrated. Being with this kind of person really makes people feel "so tired, I feel like I will never love again." 7. Spending money lavishly Such people have no sense of money. Not only do they themselves become "moonlight clan", they may also drag others into the same business. For example, they often borrow money to buy unnecessary things, and it is hard to say whether they will pay it back. When dealing with such people, be careful about the safety of your wallet! |
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