Is he right for you? 7 tips to find your Mr. Right

First of all, I want to say that there is no such thing as a 100% destined partner arranged by God in the previous life in this world...If there were, there wouldn't be so many people with deformed marriages. Any man has the potential to develop feelings for you and spend your life with you. The key is whether you can face it. What you need to face include: whether you can understand him, whether you can find the right way to get along with him, and whether you are attracted to each other.

(1) The first point is his attitude towards you

After spending a few times together, does he have feelings for you? This is important. Even if I am not attracted to you, I should at least have some affection for you. If he has no feelings for you at all, then even if you like him, I would advise you to let go. Because, your ending will either be turning into a woman who is “just for fun”, or you will not get the emotions you want.

(2) He doesn’t have any bad habits that you cannot accept.

for example. You don't like drunkards, but he likes to drink; you don't like gamblers, but his favorite place is the mahjong hall; you don't like anything, but he has this characteristic. Then, don't try to develop a relationship with him. Because it is impossible for him to change these for you.

(3) Willing to consider you

A man who smokes next to you without any scruples on the first date should be rejected. He should at least ask for your consent. Of course, it’s a different story after a few dates. This means that he doesn't respect you and is not willing to consider you. A man who is willing to open the door for you before getting in a taxi, a man who helps you find a seat to sit down, and a man who helps you push the door when you go out are all more worthy of your consideration. It's not because they are more gentlemanly, but because: they are thinking about you.

(4) Respect your opinions

If a man turns a blind eye to your opinions, then he doesn't respect you as a person. For example, you say you want to eat fried rice in the evening, but he takes you directly to a noodle restaurant and tells you that the noodles there are delicious. Then, such a man is not worthy of your close friendship. Some women are very interesting. They think it's good to have a man who can make decisions for them. But I want to say that a man who does not respect your opinions will not respect you in your future relationships.

(5) Respect your female identity

A man who tells dirty jokes in front of you on the first date should be rejected.

A man who swears in front of you without any scruples on the first date should be rejected.

You should reject a man who talks about love between men and women on the first date.

Taking you to see an unhealthy movie on the first date. or. Men who watch this exaggerated thriller should give it a try.

You should reject a man who takes you to a place where men gather on the first date.

(6) No complicated family relationships

If he values ​​his mother's opinion more than his own, then you should think about it more carefully. Especially if he has a difficult sister. Because you can't be sure whether you can fall deeply in love with this person or even get married to him. To avoid falling in love and being unable to extricate yourself, tell yourself that your future marriage will be very tiring.

(7) When you feel that there is nothing wrong with the above 6 points, don't rush to draw conclusions about a man, even if he loves you and you love him.

It takes a very long process to truly understand a person. Some people may not understand each other even after ten years of marriage. If he gives you a good impression at the beginning and shows his affection for you. Then you can try to start with him. However, when a woman first enters into a relationship, she must pay attention to always observe the men around her. Watch his every move. For example, his attitude towards people, his attitude towards relationships, his attitude towards family, and how he deals with stress and difficulties. This is important. This determines whether he can be a good husband.

I have a colleague who has been married for three years and her husband has been doing very well. However, because of an intense quarrel, he cheated on his wife and found another woman. Later, he actually fell in love with that woman, and the marriage ended in divorce.

If a man always deals with problems with an evasive attitude, then it is worth your careful consideration. But, observation is observation. Don't say it. The smartest animal is the fox because it is good at pretending to be deaf and dumb. If you can properly place yourself in the dark, you will be able to see more.