The "skill" to seduce men

Marriage is the destination of love between men and women, but many people will find that when two people move from love to marriage, the feeling between them will not be as sweet as before. In fact, how women get along with men is a topic worth discussing in itself. Today, let me give you some tips from the love secrets, and see how women tease men!

1. Give men space

Husband and wife are the two major objects in a marriage relationship. Although close intimacy is the ideal state of love, women should not tie men too tightly. Tying them too tightly will make men feel suffocated and more likely to develop a rebellious mentality.

After marriage, men need to revolve around two circles: society and family. The former is the stage for career development, and the latter is a harbor for enjoying love. Both circles are very important to men.

If a woman ties a man too tightly, he will become a loner. Without friends, he will feel lonely, and it will not be conducive to his career development. This is what the saying "more friends, more paths" means.

Men like a marriage life with a balance between strictness and leniency. Women should allow him to take care of the family and make friends. Such women will be cherished by men.

Since a man’s circle of friends is full of good and bad people, giving a woman freedom does not mean leaving her alone. The best strategy is to pay attention to or even join his social circle. This kind of social style, where the husband follows the wife, not only makes the women who like him restrain themselves, but also makes the men wary of extramarital temptations.

2. Respect men’s opinions

In today's society, most couples adopt a division of labor model in which men work outside and women work inside. This division of labor is not only because men are too focused on their careers to take care of the household, but also because women's delicate characteristics make them more suitable for managing the household finances.

It is a man's nature to care about his reputation. Not being the head of the household does not mean that he can be ignored by his lover. A woman should seek the man's opinions on housework more often to make him feel that he has dignity. He will not only be more willing to accept the woman's suggestions, but also give her more respect, which is conducive to avoiding disputes over trivial household chores.

Therefore, women should first put forward their suggestions and explain the reasons for housework, and then leave it to men to decide. Since most men do not like trivial and complicated things, they often take women's opinions as their own, which is more conducive to implementing women's own decisions.

A man will feel disrespected when a woman acts first and reports later. Although he won't say it, he will definitely feel unhappy in his heart. Not only will he imitate the woman and act first and report later, he may even find a woman who respects him to satisfy his vanity.

3. Help men in their careers

After marriage, no matter whether a man is outstanding or not, he needs to shoulder the burden of the family. He not only has to protect his wife and children from wind and rain, but also has to work hard to earn money to support the family. He needs the understanding and help of women. Men value their careers very much. When they achieve success, they hope women can share their joy. When they encounter setbacks, they also hope women can help them share the pressure. This is why men like women who can bring good luck to them.

Therefore, when women support men’s careers, they cannot just provide housework and support, but should actively serve as good advisors and assistants.

When a man's career is booming, encourage him to go further. An encouraged man will become more ambitious.

When a man's career is not going well, a woman should comfort his feelings of loss, help him analyze the reasons for his failure, and offer suggestions for his comeback.

Men regard such women as good helpers in their careers and virtuous wives in their family life. They are not only willing to share their achievements and joy, but also cannot let go of them.

4. Tolerate men’s shortcomings

There is an idiom that goes "No gold is pure, no man is perfect", even the most outstanding man will have shortcomings. Since men have a rough character and do not pay attention to details like women, they will inevitably develop some bad habits during the twenty years of single life.

When in love, men will deliberately hide their shortcomings in order to win a woman, but they will no longer hide them after marriage. Women may accept some of men's shortcomings, but may not be able to tolerate some. Transforming men becomes what women are most keen to do after marriage.

However, when correcting a man’s shortcomings, a woman often only vents her dissatisfaction with her mouth. Sometimes a man may pay a little attention for the sake of peace and quiet, but he will not take a woman’s nagging as an imperial decree. The result of nagging is that the man’s bad habits are not corrected, but instead the relationship between the couple is affected.

Therefore, if a woman can tolerate a man's shortcomings, she should actively adapt to them. If she cannot tolerate them, she should not be impatient for quick results, let alone deliberately try to change the man. Because the result of transformation is often fruitless. On the contrary, men will cherish women who tolerate and appreciate them more.

5. Honor your man’s parents

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in Chinese families. The discord between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will make it very difficult for the man to be caught in the middle. He can neither offend his wife nor be unfilial to his mother. Over time, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and sometimes even ruin the marriage. This is an issue that married women need to pay special attention to.

Women should understand that the mother-in-law is the mother who raised her husband. No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, she will not sacrifice the mother-child relationship for the sake of the relationship between husband and wife. When there is a dispute between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't expect the man to stand on the side of the woman.

A woman should understand that as long as her mother-in-law is alive, she will inevitably have to deal with her. Instead of treating her as an opponent, it is better to work hard to maintain a good relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Although a daughter-in-law’s efforts for her mother-in-law may not be rewarded, she should still be filial to her mother-in-law in order to prevent the man she loves from being caught in the middle. Men will not only cherish women who respect their parents-in-law, but will also take the initiative to persuade their mothers to be nicer to their daughters-in-law.

How women get along with men

Women should know some scientific ways to get along with men. Don't wait until you can no longer bear it before you think about giving up a man who is not right for you. Time is a woman's most precious asset. When it is time to turn around, you should turn around and leave. Even if you have to go through a period of sadness, you must understand that it was a mistake and there is no need to spend time proving it.

For a woman, the best man should always be the one who stays by your side. Don’t always compete with him. He is the one who can tolerate your bad temper, and he is the only one who can treat you like a princess.

Among your male classmates since childhood, there must be one who is your lifelong friend. Don’t use terms like “blue friend” or “red friend” to color your friendship. This may be the only love between men and women that can remain pure, and you will be loyal to each other at critical moments.

Don't always try to be competitive in front of a man, or drink and fight with him. If you use force, you will never be a match for a man. Even if you don't know how to use soft tactics, you can be wise. "If you want to take something, you must give it first." Men are all susceptible to this trick.

You should maintain a necessary distance from your male colleagues, do not call them outside of work hours, and be more careful in front of your male superiors. Topics such as "sexual harassment" have always been scandals between the two of you. It is not worth ruining your future for this.

No matter how bad a single man is, he has the freedom to love you. If you don't love him, don't try to whet his appetite out of vanity. Men can also be hurt by love, and it may take a long time to heal. Politely and appropriately rejecting a man you don't love is good for both him and you.

No matter how good a married man is, he has no right to say that he loves you. Even if you love him to death, he is another man and cannot give you a lifetime. Don't put yourself in a position where you are not blessed or even worthy of sympathy, and hate all men.

Women who want to use love to "fly to the tree and become a phoenix" mostly end up "being independent after the prosperity is gone". Men nowadays are not stupid at all, let alone those successful men with power and money. Such love itself is cheap and no one will pay a high price for it.

Don't let a man treat you to a meal or accept gifts just for the sake of trying to get a small advantage. If a man looks down on you, he will take advantage of you and treat you as a free "bargain". You will be so miserable that you won't be able to cry. If a woman plays this game with a man, she will always look "immature".

Don't bully a man who seems to have a good temper. Even rabbits bite when they are angry. Don't continuously provoke a man who is already angry. You will definitely not end up well. Once you are slapped in the face, you will have to break up even if you don't want to. Even if he regrets it, you can only regret it.

You should weigh whether you believe what an irrelevant man says, because you need to keep your eyes open to protect yourself. You should try your best to believe what your husband says, because you need to close one eye when looking at your marriage. One day, you will thank yourself for your wisdom and confidence.

If it is already an old love, don't get entangled with him/her anymore. If the man is still willing to associate with you, it is not because he still loves you, but because he feels good to have one more person loving him. But what are you? In the end, you will have to clean up the messy mess yourself.

It doesn't really matter what other men think of you. What women should think about all the time is how much weight you have in your man's heart. Of course, you will also get aesthetically fatigued, but after changing someone, it won't take long before the same cycle begins again.

Don't be the kind of bossy woman who can't live without power for a day. Men who are with you will be too tired, and will eventually give up the idea of ​​loving and caring for you under invisible pressure. When men treat you as their leader or buddy, you will feel helpless and lonely. People ultimately need to rely on hugs to keep warm.

Don't be a little woman who can't live without money. No matter how much the man around you loves you, he can't stand your nagging about trivial things every day. You complain every day and are always greedy for not being able to get enough. It's better for you to work hard with him, shut up and give him a charming smile.

Dear, men are not tigers. Even if they are, there is still Wu Song. Learn to get along happily and easily with the men around you. If you can't get along with each other, stay away from each other. If you can't go the same way, just pass by each other. This way, you can win the respect and help from men to the greatest extent, and enjoy the happiness and warmth from men.