8 reasons why women love to bite their boyfriends

A male netizen posted a question: "Women just like to bite people? That's strange. I've been with several girlfriends, and I got bitten every time! I don't know what they are thinking?" A psychological analysis of why women love to bite their boyfriends. "咬你" and "要你" sound similar, which may be a subconscious expression

Psychological analysis of women's love for biting their boyfriends

1. Appropriate and harmless "harm" is actually a proof of intimacy and a means to promote intimacy. It's just like when you and your good friends complain about each other's shortcomings and embarrassing moments. The subtlety lies in this: I can "hurt" you, but you won't blame me. Moreover, the person who bites will not actually bite the target, thus creating a sense of trust. It's similar to this, sometimes men like to have a few punches with each other.

2. Compared to saying "I love you" or something like that, biting is more suitable for girls who are more reserved. Seemingly aggressive behavior is used as a "disguise" to express intimacy.

3. Rather than being gentle, being a little "tough" gives you a more coquettish vibe. Because you know the other person won't get angry, it's a mild "threat" - "Be careful or I'll bite you!"

4. When we were young, we sucked milk in a biting manner, which was a period when we were very dependent on others. In the domestic cultural atmosphere, girls are more dependent on boys, rather than the other way around. So it can be seen as a reproduction and expression of a sense of dependence. I think guys don't bite girls that often.

5. “咬你” and “要你” sound similar, which may be a subconscious expression. However, this explanation is not appropriate for people who speak other languages. I don’t know about foreign girls.

6. Good bite. The act of biting can lead to other interactions, which are all feedback from biting. These feedbacks are good feelings, so they can be seen as an incentive.

7. The bite force is very strong, giving a feeling of firmly grasping the person, expressing possessiveness and control.

8. Leave a mark. Because you can see that you can leave a mark on the other person and see the result of the interaction. But that's not entirely true, because unless the bite leaves a scar, it's not permanent. This mark is more suitable for tattoos.

The psychology of being a spoiled child: hitting hurts, scolding is love, biting is both pain and love!

Women may be good at communicating outside, but when talking to close people, especially boyfriends or husbands, they usually like to use "brain teasers" that are full of mysteries and difficult to decipher. In many cases, they "say the opposite of what they mean", just like "wearing underwear outside" in fashion!

When she calls you a "dead ghost", "bad guy" or even a "hooligan" or the rustic "damn you", please don't rush to defend yourself or get angry. She will not "scrape the sha" for someone who has nothing to do with her, nor will she utter the above "curses". Similarly, when a man does not understand her words, actions and needs, she will resort to aggressive "wild coquetry". The saying "beating is pain and scolding is love" is exactly this logic.

Women like things that they can "empathize with" and are most afraid that their men have "two hearts". Correspondingly, they care most about whether the other party has digested her "distorted" words, or whether her body language is believed and accepted by him, and then he makes a correct and heartwarming response. Otherwise it would be very unreasonable.

Psychologists analyzed that once a woman falls in love, she will become childish and immature, like to speak in a coquettish voice, like to suck (kiss), like to act coquettishly (or act wild), like to play (bite, pinch, squeeze), or give nicknames, etc. In other words, love makes women prone to irrationality, which can be traced back to the low-level needs of infancy. It seems that it is natural for women to act cute in front of their men.

After seeing this clearly, when a man is bitten by his girlfriend, he will understand the meaning behind it.

What to tell a girl who likes to bite her boyfriend

We think too much and have too little fun every day. We really need to regain the care we felt in our childhood and the chemistry of flirting between lovers to relieve our depression and anxiety. It is too negative to wait for others to comfort you. Why not pamper yourself first? Act like a spoiled child to yourself every day, make yourself happy like a child, make faces in front of the mirror, say sweet words, and induce self-love and care. Increase your self-love and resistance to depression, and turn yourself into the most reliable and approachable spiritual partner.