Men and women have such concerns when they take off their disguises

There is an old saying that "men and women are different", which refers to the concept issues of both men and women. This point is particularly evident in the attitudes of men and women towards gender relations. So, what are the differences between men and women in terms of sexual relations? Only by understanding their secrets can we make both our sex life and our relationships harmonious. Now, let’s take a look with the editor.

5 things men should know:

Many women are not satisfied with their body shape

Women like to have sex in the dark, the main reason is that they are worried that their bodies are not perfect enough and they don’t want to be seen by the other party. Dr. Cindy Moston, a sex psychologist at the University of Texas, found through a survey that even after being with their partners for many years, women still worry that they are not attractive enough. Their figure, skin, and even moles on the body make women feel worried. Careful men should be aware of this concern and give them more encouragement and praise.

Women don't think orgasm is necessary

Many men believe that a good lover should give his woman orgasm. Orgasms are great, but they are not essential for women. On the contrary, orgasm may cause them stress, and they may even fake it.

Believe that sex is closely related to the rest of life

When having sex, women often associate the rest of their lives with it. The attitude of their lover towards them in bed will have a great impact on women when deciding whether to marry him and spend the rest of their lives with him.

Women don't hate condoms

Most men feel that wearing a condom is like "scratching an itch through a shoe", which will affect their "power" and make women lose pleasure. In fact, for women, whether men wear condoms during sex, they don’t have any special feelings, and it doesn’t affect the pleasure. On the contrary, if a man does not wear a condom, the woman will be distracted during sex for fear of pregnancy.

Women like men who bring a sense of security

Most women prefer men who are mature, stable, successful, gentle, kind, responsible, caring and can give her a sense of security. Such men are truly sexy. Brave men are mostly fictional idols in movies and TV dramas, not women’s true loves.

5 things women should know:

Men worry about their sexual performance

Men often worry that their lovers are not satisfied with their "size". For men, "sex" is both their strength and their fatal weakness. When it comes to sex, men need encouragement and comfort, but never ask him "what's wrong".

Men don't want to talk about their exes with their lovers

Mature men hate talking about past relationships with their lovers. If the past was good, their wives will become jealous and nag if they talk about it. If the past makes a man sad, he will feel embarrassed if he talks about it. Just because a man doesn't tell everything doesn't mean he's cheating. He may just want to prevent the past from affecting the present.

Men also want emotional communication

Men's sexual desires do not all need to be satisfied through sex. Especially mature men, they need more emotional communication. Caressing is the foreplay that men want most. Hugging, kissing, and saying caring words can make men feel satisfied.

Men want to try new sexual methods

The pursuit of greater sexual stimulation and sexual pleasure is the goal of many men. If the method or approach he proposes is healthy and safe, they would like to try it together and give suggestions rather than hear criticism.

Masturbation is a man's lifelong companion

The survey shows that among married men, 75.6% still masturbate after marriage, and 7.9% of them masturbate frequently. For men, the purpose of masturbation is often direct and single. Most of the time, it is to vent the unreleased sexual desires freely and conveniently, and at the same time satisfy their unlimited sexual imagination. Male masturbation does not necessarily mean that the relationship between the couple has deteriorated.