Double stimulation can actually return to the "first time"

In the sexual intercourse between couples, no one can always have perfect sex. Maybe one day you suddenly find that the passion that once brought you infinite joy has disappeared like a passing cloud. Do you understand the reason for this embarrassment? Medical experts call this phenomenon of sudden disappearance of orgasm "temporary orgasm interruption." In fact, it is much more difficult for women to reach orgasm than men. But as long as you find out the reason and prescribe the right medicine, I believe you will be able to regain the incomparable joy you once felt when two sexes interacted with each other.

Method 1: Understand your body.

Sometimes, the reason why we feel that sexual intercourse is tasteless is because there is a lack of intimate contact between the two sexes, the foreplay is not sufficient, or you lack understanding of your own body, your own sexual sensitive zones and sensitivity, and are unable to express your sexual needs to your partner, so that it is difficult to achieve a level of sensory pleasure that satisfies yourself when actually doing it.

Method 2: Understand your sexual feeling cycle.

Generally speaking, the secretion of hormones in the human body will affect sexual desire.

Abnormally low secretion of aphrodisiac hormones, progesterone, and testosterone in the human body can reduce sexual desire, cause abnormal uterine contractions, and even change the sensitivity to orgasm.

Irregular menstruation and pelvic pain can hinder orgasm, and women's sexual desire will be affected by secretion disorders at the beginning of menopause. Different chemicals in the brain can also affect the satisfaction during sexual intercourse. Many times, sedatives and antihistamines for allergies can reduce sexual desire and sexual ability.

Method 3: Appropriate sexual fantasies can increase your sexual sensitivity.

In the life of both sexes, romantic sexual fantasy is the most effective weapon to create a perfect sex life. If you cannot concentrate when you are having sex and your mind is filled with the trivialities of daily life, then you will not be able to enjoy the pleasurable feeling brought by orgasm.

The correct way is, before making love, first take a deep breath, focus on yourself and the moment in front of you, close your eyes, spread the wings of imagination, imagine that the other person's breath has permeated your whole body, flowing through every inch of your skin, and feel the soul-stirring touch of the other person's fingertips and your skin.

Before going to bed, you might as well take a warm bath, massage your feet, and relax yourself, while imagining yourself as the most passionate person, one who is about to enjoy a feast of love with his or her lover.

Method 4: Only by devoting yourself wholeheartedly can you fill your body and mind with the desire for passion.

Some experts believe that men can reach orgasm through sensory stimulation alone, but women need physical, emotional, atmosphere and other stimulation to feel pleasure. Only when she is fully committed and full of passion can she get a wonderful sexual experience. Voice and body language are the most direct and effective methods of sexual communication.

A smart woman will cleverly convey her sexual needs and pleasure, as well as her desires, to her partner while praising him. Therefore, in bed, you need to focus on your own body and play your role well in order to fully communicate each other's desires.

Method 5: Free yourself from psychological shadows.

Some women are afraid to have sex because they have been sexually traumatized. Psychologists believe that if women avoid sex and deny their own needs for sex because of psychological trauma left by previous emotional and sexual setbacks, they will live in the shadow of sexual fear and be unable to extricate themselves.

From a scientific point of view, sexual repression can temporarily balance worries, but it cannot completely eradicate one's psychological shadow. The correct way is that you must face yourself, open up your heart, fully adjust yourself, avoid problems that cannot be solved, believe that sex born out of love is beautiful, try to get yourself out of the psychological shadow, slowly accept a normal sex life, and thus turn yourself into a woman who enjoys sexual pleasure normally.