Men do this, women can't resist

A man who can fascinate women should be like a good piece of clothing. From an independent point of view, the material, tailoring, design, etc. should be a work of art. Once used, it should be gentle, comfortable and intimate, and women are willing to put a lot of effort into maintaining it. We list them one by one below, and please men rate themselves.

1. Work conscientiously

Men who focus on their work are the most attractive. Many women are attracted to focused men and try every possible way to tease them, hoping that their attention will be diverted to themselves. Just think about it, if there is a way to make a man who regards his career as his life drop his briefcase, leave the meeting he is about to attend, and surrender to you impulsively, letting you untie his tie and tear open his shirt, and then not care about anything else but just want to have crazy sex with you, what a shocking satisfaction that would be! However, if you really drop your work from then on and concentrate on being with her, then sooner or later you will be kicked away by her, because men who don't work seriously are the least worthy of respect in the eyes of women. So be serious when you are working, and relax when you are not working. A man who is always working is very boring.

2. Be authentic and not pretentious

The mature handling of interpersonal relationships is not artificial, and the strategizing of business interactions is not artificial, but when you are with the woman you like, please show your manly self. Why are "cool guys" so popular? Why do women love and care for James Dean no matter how bad he is? Because women see the true self of men and can't help but want to touch them, to enter that world, and feel that they are truly participating in the life journey of this man.

Don't try too hard to please women by learning what to give or what to say at candlelight dinners, or by being too submissive to women's wishes and losing your own opinions. This will spoil women and confuse you. Even if a woman accepts you because you are nice to her, she has already become willful and spoiled, and it will be difficult for both of you in the future. Of course you should improve your shortcomings, but you don't need to change yourself into a person who goes against your own wishes for the sake of others. Otherwise, when you suppress your shortcomings to the point of rebounding, you will resent your own efforts and end up becoming enemies with only regrets.

3. Keep your promises

People with too many principles are difficult to get along with, but people with no principles are also despised. People must have some dignity in life, and fighting for fame and fortune is also a hope to be respected after becoming rich and powerful. Women distrust men who are always scalpers and do not keep their words the most, because what can a man who does not even respect himself do? A man who keeps his promises will make a woman a little afraid of him and she dare not break her promises at will, because she knows how much this man values ​​this matter and if she disobeys him, there will be extremely serious consequences. If a man wants a woman to submit to him, he must have his own inviolable ground, but first he must set an example and win the woman's respect.

4. Let her play the role of mother

Every woman has the instinct to be a mother. Faced with a man who is spoiled and shameless, most women are completely helpless. In your world of two, occasionally curl up in her arms and let her feel that she also has the ability to protect you, take care of you, and give to you like a mother, and that you need her so much. Her feelings for you will be deeply rooted, and she will be devoted to you and unable to let go.

5. Expression of Love

Many newspapers and magazines teach men not to forget to say "I love you" or "thank you" to women, to give her a kiss before going out, etc. If you enjoy doing it, then you can do it, but if we are not used to these things since childhood, there is no need to force ourselves to learn these foreign things and make ourselves feel uncomfortable. In fact, body language can make women feel more deeply than verbal words. If a woman can always confirm the level of intimacy between you, she will not force you to ask you whether you love her or not.

When watching TV together, reach over her body to get the newspaper; when fastening her seat belt in the car, pretend to touch her chest with your arm accidentally; when you go to the kitchen to watch her cooking, slap her butt and then pinch it gently, and when she screams, leave immediately, ignore her and pretend you didn't hear what she was scolding you; in front of others, always stand very close to her, as if you are always behind her ready to protect her at any time... These seemingly unintentional little actions will make a woman feel the connection between you and look forward to real intimacy in bed.

It’s okay if you are not used to asking about her well-being, because women like to play the role of a caring mother; but once she has any situation, for example, she is sick, injured in an accident, or bullied, you must immediately show a high degree of nervousness and concern to let her know how much you care about her. That kind of sweetness often makes a woman extremely happy.

6. Man's True Nature

Although "sexual ability" is not the highest indicator for judging a man, it is definitely one of the important factors that determine whether a woman is attracted to him or not. The so-called sexual ability is not the "strong and brave" as advertised, just like the statistics show that the less knowledgeable men are, the more they are obsessed with big breasts. Emphasizing primitive sexual characteristics is the style of uncivilized people. No wonder “strong and brave” advertisements are designed for a certain class of people. In the history of sexology in China and abroad, foreplay and caress are the most important and indispensable. Most women like to be guided by men and be teased by men with words or actions to make them feel hungry and thirsty. There are many sex books in China, all of which point out the same sexual taboos: having sex as roughly and hard as in porn movies, and sweating like a cow, can easily make a man age quickly and ejaculate quickly. Although ancient medicine may be mixed with superstition due to ignorance, rushing forward desperately without caring about the feelings of the person at the bedside is definitely not the best solution.

Charming men, please remember this little reminder: When you wake up after making love, please don’t be so cold as if you have turned your back on you, because women will still keep the romance and satisfaction of the previous night in their minds and savor them carefully. So, men, please wake up with a smile and give her a kiss, instead of pulling up your pants and walking away, leaving the woman feeling like she was slapped in the face; just like a drink carton that has been drained dry, flat and empty and thrown into the garbage dump, desolate and helpless. The pleasure of making love at the time is certainly exhilarating, but the lingering attachment afterwards makes women savor it even more. Remember!