The essential difference between desire and sex

Men's desire is carnal, and women's desire is sexual. Women, on the other hand, want to wrap up their desires with purple rose petals, and embroider "in the name of love" or at least "in the name of feelings" with gold thread. Just as the rebels had to have a pretext, women must give their physical desires a spiritual name in order to enjoy them with peace of mind...

Men's lines are simpler and more concise than women's

This may also explain why men like to change their female companions constantly, just like constantly changing cars can bring different driving pleasures. When they cannot afford to change cars, they buy car models, just like when they cannot afford to change their female companions, they buy different porn movies and change different heroines, so that they can empathize and enjoy themselves.

Men's desire is carnal, women's desire is sexual.

To be more precise, men's desire is carnal desire, and women's desire is sexual desire. Women, on the other hand, want to wrap up their desires with purple rose petals and have "in the name of love" embroidered on them with gold thread, or at least "in the name of emotion." Just as the rebels in the past had to have a legitimate reason to start a war, women must give their physical desires a spiritual name in order to feel at ease and enjoy them to their heart's content.

Men all hope to become the leader of the "sharp knife squad" at some point, who is straightforward, direct in action, and takes pleasure as the highest principle in everything. Therefore, men will never understand why women have to put on gorgeous emotional condoms to cover their sensual bayonets, making it inconvenient to enter and exit.

The lust that women yearn for is like a European art film

The lust that women yearn for is somewhat like European art films, with elegant tones, mature yet wild objects, and the two can say some beautiful silly words. As for men, in fact, they will never mature, they will only get fat! Women always hope that the person they can sleep with and talk about love with is James Bond; but the reality is that the other party is always the nonsensical Crayon Shin-chan, who dances the elephant dance and leaves gracefully.

High level of sexual ideals

It seems that it is difficult for women to realize their high-level sexual ideals in reality, so a beautiful and talented person like Du Liniang inevitably dies through chronic suicide.

As a woman, I remember Duras because of her moving story; I also remember Picasso because of his unbridled excitement and some frank childishness. From then on, I understood that a man as smart as Picasso longs for sex that involves opening his legs and exposing all the parts that can be exposed.

"Sexual partner": As long as there is a sexual relationship and no monetary transaction is involved, it is called a sexual partner. It can be said that sex is more instinctive, while love is more human. ”

"Sexual liberation": the advocacy and practice of completely abandoning the constraints of traditional moral concepts on sexual behavior. Also known as sexual freedom or sexual revolution. A change in sexual concepts and lifestyles that began in the West in the early 20th century. Sexual freedom advocates opposed all sexual constraints, advocated the separation of sex and love, and sex and marriage, denied the concept of chastity, promoted premarital and extramarital sex, and demanded that society accept trial marriage and cohabitation.

Women's "separation of soul and flesh": Sex is a human instinct, but it is by no means the only instinct. Sex is a process that involves many links, so we call it "sex" more often. The two complement each other. Nowadays, more and more people simplify things and get straight to the point. Are they tired of communicating or are they afraid of love?

There is a process in sex, which is called love. As for those who skip the process - especially women, there must be a reason, either they are born with special talents or they have been stimulated.

60% of women also get excited when watching erotic movies

However, the beautiful girl in "American Pie" can't help herself when seeing magazines full of erotic flavor like "Playboy". Traditional society believes that women would not like to watch porn, and even believes that they have never watched it. The truth is not so. A survey shows that 60% of women get excited when watching erotic movies, but they just don't agree with the performance of the heroine in the film.

Soul and body separated, playing the game of life

Perhaps women have to raise their sexual standards because the straightforward erotic products on the market are made for men.

Maybe one day, the abused nurse in the Japanese porn movie will become a tied-up male doctor, or the male protagonist will act like he really wants to please the female protagonist, or the male protagonist's moaning will be earth-shattering and never dull. At that time, women may be able to become like men, invulnerable to all poisons, separate their souls from their bodies, and play around in the world - good or bad? Whether you like it or not, the boundaries between the inner worlds of men and women will gradually blur - the world will eventually become like this