A survey pointed out that more than 80% of people have experienced such a "period of sexual unemployment" in their lives. The period of sexual unemployment is similar to what people call the sexual window period, which refers to a period of time (generally from 1 month to 2 years) when stable sexual life comes to an abrupt end and couples cannot enjoy normal and regular sex. There are many reasons for sexual "unemployment". If not handled properly, it may cause a series of problems, such as mutual suspicion, cheating, the appearance of a third party, and cold feelings between husband and wife. Therefore, everyone who has sexual experience should learn to deal with the "sexual unemployment period" correctly. The period of separation between the two places. Due to objective reasons such as work, some couples have to live apart. The separation of space can cause physical and emotional suffering to the couple, and they are prone to emotions such as loneliness, confusion, irritability, and resentment, which lead to quarrels and accusations. This is also an important reason why many "long-distance relationships" and "couples living in two places" eventually break up. Coping strategy: Lovers who are separated by distance should, in addition to calling or texting each other once a day, agree on a time period for meeting, such as every 2-3 months. You can also relieve the pain of missing your partner through methods such as online video. It should be noted that both parties must trust each other, because being separated by distance, many things can easily arouse suspicion, so never say things like "Do you have someone else?" Wife's pregnancy. Most couples who are preparing to have children are between 25 and 35 years old, which is the peak period of sexual desire in their lives. Since the entire pregnancy period is nearly a year, sexual life has to be restrained or even stopped, so some men find it difficult to get satisfaction. In addition, when a wife is pregnant, her body shape changes, and when she becomes anxious and irritable, she will vent to her husband, which can also put pressure on the man. Surveys show that men are most likely to cheat when their wives are pregnant. Coping strategies: Sexual life does not have to be completely stopped during pregnancy. You can maintain normal sexual life in the middle of pregnancy. Try to have sex with the woman on top, but don't be too intense. In the early and late stages of pregnancy, sexual desire can be satisfied through caressing and mutual masturbation. Men should pay more attention to their wives, accompany them to prenatal checkups, and divert their attention. It should be noted that the wife should not complain that her husband is "always thinking about that thing", and the husband should not make fun of his wife's figure. Children before 1 year old . Studies show that couples have the least amount of sex in the first year after a child is born. The eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, sleeping, crying, etc. of a newborn baby will make the new father and mother feel uneasy and unable to sleep well, and their sex life will also be affected. Coping strategy: After having children, you cannot completely ignore the other party. It is best to arrange some time for intimacy and enjoy the world of two people. Normally, maintain intimate actions such as touching, kissing, and hugging, so that sex can gradually return to normal. The cold war period between husband and wife. Surveys show that 80% of divorced couples have been in a long-term cold war. The contents of the cold war between couples include: ignoring each other, living apart, having no sex life, and not caring about each other. The Cold War will cause one party to develop a revengeful mentality, which may lead to infidelity. Coping strategy: If a couple is in a stalemate for more than 48 hours, the negative emotions will overwhelm the original love or gratitude, so never treat your lover with silence. The smartest thing to do is to take the initiative, wear sexy clothes, make sexual suggestions, and use sex to resolve conflicts. |
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