Women's love of being lovers is actually caused by this

Some men continue to have affairs and find lovers outside even after they get married. This has also led to many young women becoming men's lovers. So why do they want to be a man's lover instead of marrying a man? Today, the editor will take you to find out.

Why do women prefer to be lovers rather than wives? Here are five reasons analyzed by a woman who would rather be a "lover" than a "principal wife". Maybe you will think this is too absurd. Different people have different preferences. After careful consideration, it seems that there is some truth in it!

He often told me, "I will definitely not marry you. There are too many problems between us. If we can break up in the future, we will break up. If we can't, we will just be lovers." Maybe everyone would think that I should be sad to hear this. Don’t people in normal relationships all hope to achieve a happy ending and enter the palace of marriage? Haha, then you are really wrong.

I always think that if someone wants me to be his lover, that person really knows what he is talking about. If I were your wife for a long time, I would definitely get bored and annoyed. The most important thing for a person is to know himself. I am the kind of person who will become clingy if I get too close to others, the kind that has no self-control, and will become extremely annoying after a while.

But if we don't have this unusually close relationship, I will always be tactful, know when to advance and when to retreat, and behave properly in front of you. If I occasionally lose my temper, you will find it harmless and cute, and I will never make you feel bored, because I will never stick to someone who is not completely close to me.

Besides, I always think that it is impossible for a man not to want to cheat, so, instead of being the wife, it is better to be a lover. Flirting, talking and behaving seductively are quite charming. Men generally don't want to tell their wives many things about themselves, but they will not keep them secret from their lovers, because there is no need. This way the lover will know more about the man than the wife. Also, because she is the lover and not the wife, there will be less jealousy and worry, and men will be much more relaxed and have more time to enjoy themselves instead of giving. When a man is with his wife, it is a responsibility and an obligation; but when he is with his lover, it is a relaxation and pleasure. Haha, if I don't want to be a happy lover, do I want to be a sallow-faced woman?

Compare the advantages of being a lover over being a wife.

First point

Many people think that lovers are lonely and often stay alone in their empty rooms. Men have to pursue their careers and spend time with their families, so they rarely have time to spend with their lovers. In fact, this is just a prejudice. Feelings cannot be measured by time. Because a man may have to be with his wife for his entire life, he always feels that he has plenty of time, so he does not cherish it. It’s different for lovers. They may be together today, but separated tomorrow, so they cherish the time they spend together. To put it in a vulgar way, if a man spends the same amount of money and energy on two women, but he can enjoy his wife for a lifetime, while he can only enjoy his mistress for a few years, who would a man think is more worthy of cherishing?

Second point

Many people think that there is no emotion between men and their lovers, just sex. This is also a kind of prejudice. The exact opposite of a relationship with no feelings but only sex is a man and his wife. If a woman attaches importance to both emotion and sex, she is worse off being a lover than a wife.

Third Point

As a wife, you not only have to deal with a man, but also his parents, relatives, and children. It is not easy to handle this series of relationships. But few men let their lovers do these tedious tasks. Isn't it good to be relaxed?

Fourth point

For both lovers and wives, cheating on a man is something intolerable, but the consequences are different. Men will not make any promises to their lovers, and lovers don't need to make any promises to men. There is nothing worth dragging out between the two of them. But it's different with wives. At least it will hurt the man's face. Ha ha. In other words, being a lover also has the benefits of climbing walls. Is there such a condition for being a wife?

Fifth point

When a man is in glory, women benefit from it; when a man is in misfortune, his wife cannot escape either. If a man is in debt, the creditor may post his wife's name all over the streets, plant a bomb at her doorstep, and kidnap her son. Few people would cause trouble for their lovers, but if they do, it would be a real show. ——Looking for him? I’m looking for him too. Please let me know when you find him. Want to kill him? Okay, don't forget to give me a piece of meat.

Well, that’s it, my real thoughts. Hehe, I'd rather be a lover and live an easy life.

I think most women still very much want to be wives, and they want to be lovers out of helplessness towards men. As women, I believe you will understand this woman's thoughts. After reading this article, ask yourself again: Wife or lover, which one do you choose?