99% of boys don’t know these 3 secrets of girls

There is a saying that "distance makes beauty", but sometimes the distance between hearts can create barriers, so we must try to understand each other! There are some secrets that we have to know!

【About girls】 99% of boys don’t know these three secrets of girls

[Secret 1: Friendship between women is fragile. 】

Even if the relationship between two women is as close as it can be, it is a completely different concept from the relationship between two men. Men can go through a big event and still be good friends. No matter how close the relationship between women is, it is possible for them to break down over a small matter. Men are often the trigger.

So you may find that your girlfriend and her best friend have stopped communicating for unknown reasons, and you feel very strange about it.

Analysis: Sense of threat among women.

As women, we will compare ourselves with each other and feel that we are not as good as each other. Not as pretty as the other person, not as gentle as the other person, not as popular with men as the other person. This kind of hidden psychology often makes women feel threatened by their best friends. Once she finds out that her best friend and her man have any intimate behavior, her psychological defenses will immediately collapse and she will do something impulsive.

Solution:

Don't compare a woman's best friend with your female friends, don't praise other women in front of your woman, stay away from a woman's best friend, and stay as far away from them as possible. Even if you are joking, don't involve a woman's best friend. This is a taboo. When encountering this situation, either they collapse, or you two collapse, or everyone collapses together.

[Secret 2: The psychology of women giving face to men. 】

A woman will always feel that she is not pretty enough and not good enough to keep her husband up, even if you tell her a thousand times that she is the princess in your mind and your only one. She will still often feel insecure. If you are still stupid and don't notice this, she will often say half-jokingly: "Look at your figure, it's embarrassing for me."

Such a simple sentence may give a woman a few more wrinkles. This is not an exaggeration. Go back and ask your girlfriend or wife. The more she loves you, the more she hopes that she will give you face when you take her out. In fact, maybe you don’t care about this, but women care about it very much.

Analysis: Women need a sense of security and confidence.

Loving beauty is women’s nature. Women like to compare their appearance with other women. They always feel that they are not pretty enough and lack the sense of security to maintain their status, thus losing confidence. Especially for older women, they are even more worried about the fading of their youthful appearance.

Therefore, it is very important to give women a sense of security.

Solution:

Tell her: Honey, I take you out to have fun, not to save face. And if I like you, I will like everything about you. I will not care whether you look good or not, whether your clothes are pretty or not, whether you are prettier than others or not, and I will not care what others think. It is you that I like. No matter how beautiful someone else is, it will not change the fact that I like you.

[Secret 3: No matter how shy a woman is, she doesn’t like a serious man. 】

It is natural for women to be shy, whether in casual or deep interactions. If a man looks like a hooligan from the beginning, he will most likely be rejected by women. But no woman likes a man who is serious every day, let alone a dull man.

After getting familiar with a woman, telling her some dirty jokes and talking about some sexy topics will definitely help the development of the relationship. A serious man will give women the illusion that he is conservative and unromantic.

Analysis: Serious men make women feel boring.

Solution:

When pursuing a woman, be polite when you first meet her. After you get to know her well, you can talk about adult topics appropriately. However, you must be tactful and not be vulgar. Be subtle and allow the woman to slowly adapt.

【About boys】7 secrets of boys that 99% of girls don’t know

(1) When a lonely boy cares about you often, he has fallen in love with you.

(2) Every time he is with you, he will be very silent. He is obviously very happy, but he has nothing to say to you and seems very bored. You may think that he doesn’t like you, but you are wrong! At this time, he only has you in his eyes, but he is used to the feeling of being alone.

(3) When you can no longer bear the silence, you propose to break up, and he agrees without hesitation. You think he really doesn’t love you, but you are wrong! He just wants you to be happy and satisfy all your desires, so he would rather withdraw with pain.

(4) When you didn’t say break up, he pretended not to care at all and walked away nonchalantly. You thought he didn’t love you anymore (you were wrong). Please don’t blame him. You will never know how sad he was. Maybe he really knew that there is a feeling in the world called wanting to cry but not having the tears.

(5) You have always been on good terms with him, but he suddenly ignores you. You think he doesn’t love you anymore, but you are wrong. You will never know because this is their physiological characteristic (low mood, 1-2 times a year). When he realizes this, he will feel ashamed, fall into contradiction and be unable to face you. As long as you take the initiative, he will come back to you immediately.

(6) When you finally realize how much he loves you and that you still love him, you go to his room to find him. When you open the door, he is sitting on the bed, sighing silently. You walk towards him, but he hugs you without caring about you. You smile, but you feel your clothes are wet. You will never know that this smile of yours was bought with so many tears.

(7) When he frequently visits your profile after you break up, you may not know that he still loves you!

Do you dare to say that you knew all these secrets before? After reading them, do you feel guilty from the bottom of your heart for not understanding the other person? So share them quickly and keep them for us to study seriously. Let’s move forward together for love!!!