Why can't the mistress keep the fruit of love she has snatched

I don't know since when, when people know that a couple has broken up, they will habitually ask if the couple has someone else outside? The reasons for divorce have long changed from the original personality incompatibility of the couple and irreconcilable family conflicts to the mistress wanting to clear her name. But, when the mistress gets the man she wants, will she get true happiness and live a happy life as a princess and a prince from now on?

The exclusivity of love requires people to be faithful to love:

People's instinct will be attracted to more new things, so people will face many tests and temptations in their emotions. If men are bees and women are flowers, it is impossible to just let a bee smell the fragrance of a flower. Therefore, women need to constantly improve their various indicators and strengthen their vigilance in order to retain the fruits of their labor.

For men, cheating:

A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as a prostitute, a prostitute is not as good as a secret lover, and a secret lover is not as good as not being able to have sex. What they want is stimulation and sensory enjoyment, so men often say: One's own children are good, and someone else's daughter-in-law is good. Between stealing and not being able to steal, they like and are happy to experience this feeling, and it has basically nothing to do with love, so men seldom make up their minds to divorce their original wives and marry a mistress, because they have to calculate the cost in terms of career, family, and love, and after analysis, they will choose the decision that brings the greatest benefit.

If a man having an affair is emotional in the lower half and rational in the upper half, then a woman having an affair is emotional from head to toe, even down to every strand of her hair! When they fall in love with someone, regardless of whether this man belongs to them or not, they will use their imagination to think about the good in this man and the beauty of this love, and they wish they could dream about him in their dreams at night.

When a woman becomes the first wife through various means:

As time goes by, some people start to miss the days when they were with their original spouse as they get to know each other better, adjust their living habits, and get used to each other's personalities. After all, life is not all about romance. Most of it is about the daily necessities and family matters.

So, when life becomes real, the mistress will slowly become as unreasonable as the eldest daughter. If the two do not have children together, life will be simply unbearable. The efforts I once made for love no longer seem so valuable.

Women, you must cherish what belongs to you. It is much easier to own a new piece of clothing than to modify an old one!