Know and understand the 5 things a woman must go through before marriage

Love is a process for a woman to step out of the emotional world and enter the world of two people. Because of love, women have more opportunities to understand men, love, and marriage, and it also makes preliminary preparations for women's life after marriage.

However, many women do not do this, but simply enter into marriage unprepared under the compliments of men, which is seriously disadvantageous to women. If a woman wants to live freely and happily after marriage, she must make rational preparations for possible problems in the future, that is, she must make rational choices.

1. How to choose a man

Choosing a man can open the door to marriage, and a woman must go through this process.

Knowing and understanding a man is the first step to marriage. During this process, women should not easily fall in love and can completely relax and get to know men. This will not only expand their contact with men, but also allow them to understand through comparison what kind of man they really need.

A real man cannot be identified by his appearance. In addition to choosing a man based on his appearance, a woman should also understand his growth experience, growth story, type of friends, hobbies, attitude towards dealing with problems, his future dreams, etc., to comprehensively judge his character, will, and potential. A man who has willpower and is hardworking, even if his current conditions are not very good, has great potential, just like a potential stock. Such a man should be a woman's first choice.

It is more important to choose a man who loves you than to choose a man you love. Men are born to be hunters, and being made an emotional prisoner is something men will resist from the bottom of their hearts. There is no need for women to do such stupid things, but many women do so anyway, and thus there are many sad stories. This is not necessarily the man's fault, but the woman's stupidity.

2. How to accept a man’s family

From ancient times to the present, the world of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a world full of contradictions. This is an iron rule. Some women may say that they have a good relationship with their mother-in-law, but statistically speaking, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are common and normal. When a woman gets someone else's son, she must learn to handle relationships well with the man's elders. Constantly blaming others will only make a woman fall into an emotional quagmire, and in the end, the woman herself will always be the one who gets hurt.

A wise woman should learn to end such conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because she may become a mother-in-law one day. Learning to respect your mother-in-law can also eliminate conflicts such as those between sisters-in-law and sisters-in-law. In short, learning to respect a man’s family members actually creates a good environment for women themselves. Of course, there will be women who would say: Why should women be required to accept a man’s family? Because in reality, many men are trying to please women and their families, and this rarely happens to men.

3. How to deal with the relationship between marriage and work

Love is beautiful, marriage is boring. When the wedding is over, love comes from heaven to earth, and romance is gradually replaced by reality.

A realistic marriage needs realistic support to maintain emotional stability. Faced with the insurmountable responsibilities of pregnancy, child-rearing, and housework, women devote more love and energy to their families and men. Men are more likely to seek and practice development opportunities.

Thus, there arises a contradiction between the development of men and the stagnation of women, and between the boring life and the world of temptations that men face. Faced with such contradictions, many women are always victims of real marriages. Maybe women will curse men for having a conscience that has been eaten by dogs, but such compassionate emotional outburst cannot bring back the heart of a man who has cheated.

4. When faced with a collapsed or already collapsed love, what do women use to support themselves?

If women can consider this issue when they are in love, I think many women will choose to work to support their possible miserable lives. This is sensible and what women should do. Work is the backbone not only of men but also of women. Of course, it is understandable that many women hope to realize their dream of wealth and prosperity by marrying a wealthy husband. It's just that women need to bear the consequences of this choice.

5. How to give up your own personality

Like the above question, this question is just from a woman's perspective about how to make the life of a couple more harmonious. Everyone has their own personality or characteristics, but in the process of interacting and living with men, women should learn to correct their own personality.

Imagine if both men and women demanded that the other party adapt to themselves, it would be impossible for such men and women to live together. In fact, marriage, to a certain extent, is about men and women giving up their own characteristics and looking for common intersections. The more intersections they have, the more harmonious the marriage will be. However, this does not mean that women should completely give up themselves to cater to men, but that women need to correct themselves to win a stable and harmonious marriage. This is true for women, and of course for men as well.

Reminder: Marriage is realistic and cruel in many cases. Do women think about these when they are in love? Of course, youth is your asset, but this asset is only the limited time between the ages of 20 and 28.