Secrets You Can't Tell Your Man

There are things men really want to know, like that we love them, appreciate them, are proud of them, and think they are the best. But there are some things men don't want to know. This is their forbidden area and minefield. Women are not allowed to visit, let alone step on it, otherwise, their emotions will be blown away.

1. What did she do with her ex-boyfriend?

Spokesperson: Xiao Ma, 28 years old

She always talks about how good her ex-boyfriend was to her, and what happened when they were in love, and she describes it in great detail. I really don't want to listen to it. I hate the aftertaste on her face when she's telling the story, and I also hate the fact that she says these things on purpose to make me angry.

2. How many men has she had sex with?

Spokesperson: Wild Fox, 32 years old

She was no longer a virgin when we got married, but I didn't care too much. But occasionally there will still be a sour feeling. I actually really want to know how many boyfriends she has had. To be more precise, I'm very curious about how many men she has had relationships with. I want to know, but I'm afraid to know, so in the end I would rather not know.

3. How does she evaluate the quality of our married life?

Spokesperson: Azhi, 35 years old

After we have sex, she always analyzes my performance in detail, and sometimes she speaks very directly, which makes me a little unbearable. Women like this will put a lot of pressure on men. She behaves like this in front of me. I don't know what she says about me when she is with her girlfriends, but they don't say anything good. It's best not to know.

4. What did she do on a suspicious night (did she cheat on him occasionally)

Spokesperson: Polar Bear, 30 years old

This thing I don’t want to know can also be said to be the thing I want to know the most, but I don’t have the courage to face the truth of “what if” now. That was when I was on a business trip to Guizhou. One night, I called her home phone in the early morning but she didn't answer. I called her cell phone again and there was very soft music playing on her end. She said she was watching TV. I asked why she didn't answer the phone. She was a little panicked and said she had just been to the bathroom and that the phone might be broken. I still don't know what happened to her that night. If it would cause harm, I would suppress my curiosity and prefer not to know.

5. Does she envy others who marry better than her?

Spokesperson: Rain, 29 years old

I work hard every day, but unfortunately, I can't give her a complete life. I don’t know if she ever resented me or regretted marrying me. If the answer is yes, then I would rather not know.

6. The little things that happened to her in the office

Spokesperson: Rain has passed and the sky is clear, 32 years old

When I was 30 and still single, my biggest wish was to be able to hold hands with the person I loved, lie in bed and chat. Now I have rapidly turned into a bad man indulging in the world of pleasure. From this, I deeply realized that there is a reason behind every bad man. My reason is that I simply cannot stand her nagging. As soon as I get home, she starts reporting to me in detail everything that happened during the day, especially the trivial things in the office. She even tells me if someone farted. Actually, I’m really not interested in these things and I don’t want to know at all.

7. Who will she be with if she leaves me?

Speaker: Cat, 29 years old

The breakup is irreversible, but after the breakup, I don’t know which jerk she will choose to be with. Men and women are greedy animals. They always want those whom they once loved or who once loved them to wait for them all their lives. Therefore, even if they no longer love them, they can't help feeling sad when they know that they have started a new life. I hope I don’t know.

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Conclusion A: Men may know a general idea or outline of a woman’s past, but they definitely don’t want to know the details. Therefore, a woman should never confess to her current boyfriend every detail of her relationship with her ex-boyfriend in a frank manner, even if he sometimes asks questions - don't think that his asking means he wants to know. In fact, a rational man will pretend to be deaf and dumb about these things, and he just temporarily lost his mind at that time.

Conclusion B: Most couples will have some "suspicious nights". For these "suspicious nights", most men who want to protect their families would rather pretend not to know.

Since they are already controlling their curiosity, the woman will just pretend to forget. Maybe you feel guilty, but don't confess. Confession at this time is emotional poison.

Conclusion C: When it comes to sex, men are under greater mental pressure than women, so most of them don’t want to know how women evaluate them in front of outsiders. In this case, women should not make too many negative comments in front of him! Perhaps encouragement is more useful than denigration.

Conclusion D: Don’t report those trivial things at work to men, as most men are not interested in them. And you will become a nagging old woman in his mind. It must be admitted that men are often forced out of the house by women.

Conclusion E: Men don’t want to know that a woman has a new love after breaking up, but women don’t necessarily have to follow his wishes. Why not let him know? Life is more beautiful without him.