Why do men like to live together but not get married?

Cohabitation is no longer a new term. With the openness of sexuality, cohabitation is no longer a taboo. Most of the people who live together are young people. Since they could have legitimately gotten married, why do they live together instead of getting married? A big part of the reason for cohabitation is due to one's own physiological needs.

The purpose of cohabitation is due to physiological needs

From one point of view, this concept of post-cohabitation era is out of the conventional cohabitation life with marriage as the final destination. The real purpose of their life is just to meet the physiological needs of both parties and then live together! And the most basic ethical and moral constraints in life are thrown aside! This cohabitation lifestyle is not worth promoting! Because a life that is purely for sex without love and without considering the future life is a behavior of playing with life and ignoring the original intention of love, which must be condemned at the moral level! Then we open the topic and analyze the viewpoints of the post-cohabitation era of cohabitation without marriage one by one!

There aren't a lot of responsibilities when living together.

When it comes to cohabitation, we should consider it from the perspective of responsibility. First of all, the new cohabitation era, they finally come together for a very clear purpose, that is, not getting married as the ultimate life goal; when this choice is used as a standard and a reason for cohabitation, there is a lack of the responsibility that both parties should have in marriage life. In a cohabitation life without responsibility, to put it bluntly, you can get together when you want to, and you can break up when you want to, regardless of who is concerned about whom; there is no obligation and legal constraints for men and women to live together here, a lack of necessary elements of responsibility life is an escape from the reality of marriage life! The kind of mutual support, mutual consideration, and mutual warmth that both parties are proud of are nowhere to be found at this moment; how much sincerity can this kind of life have when it is the ultimate goal, it is nothing more than living together for physiological needs!

Living together is to meet your own needs

Here, it is hard to tell who is using whom. If you look deeper, it is to satisfy one's own physiological needs! But when there is no love in life, how much meaning does pure sex have? For the female cohabitant, this is completely contrary to the view that there is love before there is sex. This approach can only be said to be an irresponsible attitude towards one's future life, and it is bound to be full of tears!

Men cohabit without getting married because they don't love each other

He didn't really like that woman, or even if he liked her, it hadn't risen to the level of love. He just liked her, or he just wanted to get along with her for now.

Although I like her, I don't like her enough to marry her. I am too familiar with her, so familiar with her that I don't feel anything anymore and I can't muster any interest because I am always thinking about having another passionate so-called love. Besides, my temporary physical needs cannot be separated from that woman.

Men treat cohabiting women as "backups"

He has other ideas and has a clear "attack" target, but it has not been successful yet, so he will just delay it for now. If the attack is successful, he can "change positions". If it is not successful, the woman in front of him will be the candidate wife.

The wait-and-see type of man is always looking at what is in his bowl while eating from the pot. He thinks that other people's wives or women are good in every way, but his own girlfriend is not good enough. He always feels that if he gets married, he will no longer have the opportunity to choose, and he is afraid that he will suffer losses or regret in the future.