The most important thing for a man is not his length but his softness and hardness

In terms of male sexual physiology, most male compatriots are very concerned about whether they meet the standards, and many people even think that the size of the penis is related to the quality of the relationship with their partner. This idea is wrong.

Basically, the shape, size, and length of each male's external genitalia are different, and these size and length factors have no direct relationship with a man's sexual desire, sexual ability, sexual attractiveness, etc.; if we really have to say that there are factors that are directly related to "sex", then it should be related to race, genetics, age, health, environment, emotions, stress and other reasons, and these congenital and psychological influences determine the hardness of the penis during erection.

Hardness is the most basic element in men's sexual life. If the penis is not hard, the next thing will be difficult. In sexual medicine, the hardness of the male sexual organ is much more important than its length. Therefore, we often hear about diseases such as impotence, but rarely hear about problems such as the penis being too long or too short. The reason why "Viagra" became so popular is that it solves the problem of hardness and has nothing to do with length.

To maintain the hardness of the penis, the most important physiological factor is to keep the penis erect and in a state of congestion, that is, the corpus cavernosum of the penis allows more blood to enter and less to flow out. Psychologically, worry, anxiety, fear, distraction, etc. can also affect the hardness of the penis during erection. Many men have problems with sexual intercourse, mostly due to problems on the psychological level, but they mistakenly believe that it is related to length or other physiological factors. If it is a physiological problem, you should see a doctor; if it is a psychological factor, then you should see a psychologist.

In any case, what you need to care about is hardness rather than length.

Further reading: How can men improve their sexual ability?

Penis acupressure method enhances sexual ability:

Regularly using "penis acupressure" to massage the penis can effectively improve sexual ability. The method is to repeatedly grasp and squeeze the penis with your fingers. This can enhance the activation of the penis nerves and blood vessels. This is just like when people rub their hands or clench their fists repeatedly when it is cold, which can improve blood circulation in the fingers and make the fingers red and warm. Repeatedly grasping and squeezing the penis with your hands can cause an erection. You don't have to worry about an erection and you can continue the massage. You can massage in bed in the morning and evening. For example, as part of sexual caressing before sexual intercourse, it can help create a friendly and positive environment.

Stimulate the inguinal canal to strengthen testicular function:

Stimulating the inguinal canal, located on either side of the base of the penis, can also greatly improve sexual function. The groin is the pathway for blood and nerves to the testicles. Therefore, it is very important to have good blood circulation in the inguinal canal. The method of massaging the inguinal canal is to press both sides of the base of the penis with two fingers respectively, stroking from top to bottom to stimulate the blood flow to the testicles. Massage once a day, you can massage yourself in bed before going to sleep every night.

Massage the scrotum to strengthen male energy:

Regularly massaging the scrotum directly with your hands can improve blood circulation to the testicles. Since the testicles can be continuously supplied with fresh blood, it will of course enhance testicular function and improve male energy. Massage can be done once a day, 2-3 minutes each time. Use your fingers to gently rub the testicles from the upper part of the scrotum. But the time should not be too long, because excessive stimulation will cause testicular dysfunction. It is best to massage once a day. Developing a daily habit is far more effective than doing it occasionally.

Press the navel before going to bed to strengthen the liver and kidneys:

The navel is the Shenque point in traditional Chinese medicine and acupuncture. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that sexual dysfunction is mainly caused by the weakening of the liver and kidney functions. Moxibustion on the navel (Shenque point) can enhance the metabolism of these two organs and thus promote sexual ability. Therefore, it is recommended that men press their navel with their index finger for 5 to 7 minutes before going to bed every night.