Be careful! 6 major risks of friends becoming lovers

If you are still single but have a crush on a friend of the opposite sex, you should seriously consider the future development results. Anyway, everything has its pros and cons, so you must be mentally prepared for the following hidden dangers.

1. Once we separate in the future, it will be difficult to return to the simple friendship we once were.

There is always a friend by your side who will stick with you through thick and thin. Even if the friendship between the two is as plain as water, it will make you feel at ease. Although friendship is simple, it has irreplaceable power. However, if you take that step, the future development will be full of infinite variables, and you may not even be able to be friends in the end. Isn't this a bit of a loss?

2. After holding hands, I found that disappointment far outweighed hope.

Maybe in the early stages of a relationship's transformation you two are inseparable and want to stick together every day, full of freshness and sweetness. However, as time goes by, the light of love gradually fades, and as he reveals his true self to you bit by bit in real life, you will gradually discover that there is nothing special about him. Even because of the familiarity with him before, you may feel that being with him now is like dating a sibling.

3. Lost a good friend because of this

It has to be said that the relationship between lovers is much more fragile than that between friends. If you break up with your best friend, it means you have to start looking for another good friend all over again. In comparison, being good friends for life is priceless.

4. Losing a trustworthy person to talk to

In the past, you could talk to him about everything, and he knew all your past, even the troubles and secrets that were difficult to tell others, and you could talk to him without any scruples. But once they become lovers, the relationship becomes close in a certain way, but they drift apart in another direction. You can no longer talk to him freely like before. The good friend who could listen to your secrets is gone. Is it sad or happy?

5. No one is there to help you when you are in love

When you need someone to give you advice when you are in love trouble, you will definitely think of him first, who is honest and reliable! But now, when the same situation occurs, no one will give you advice anymore. Maybe you can talk to other friends, or even look for strangers online, but the advice given by the person who knows you best will never be as pertinent and appropriate. When there is a crisis in my relationship with him, who should I turn to for help?

6. A good friend knows everything about you, even the most embarrassing things in your past.

Are you ready to date someone who knows everything about you? He knows how many boyfriends you've had in the past, your little flaws and bad habits that you hide from others, and even many of your past experiences that you don't want to look back on... Are you willing to be with someone who knows all about your "bad deeds"?