6 psychological factors that lead to wives cheating

Nowadays, the number of women having extramarital affairs is increasing, and the root cause is problems with marital psychology. Specific psychological abnormalities include: loneliness, resentment, revenge, loss, superiority, and achievement.

In modern society, more and more women are cheating on their husbands, and many people wonder what is wrong with women nowadays. When it comes to cheating on their husbands, this can be largely attributed to sexual openness. In the past, many women, although dissatisfied with their husbands and also encountered the objects of transference, still adhered to traditional concepts and kept themselves chaste. Nowadays, many people have a strong sense of sexual freedom. Once they are dissatisfied with their husbands or see a goal, they often cannot control themselves.

This is of course a problem of concept. In fact, the real root of a woman's infidelity lies in her psychology. If there is a psychological problem, even if you don't cheat at the moment, there is no guarantee that you won't cheat in the future. Therefore, if you want a woman to not cheat, you must first start from the root. Only when men and women understand these psychological aspects can they be prepared for any eventuality.

1. Loneliness

Due to work reasons or separation, some husbands are often not with their wives. If such a husband lacks a sense of family responsibility, does not care about his wife, and does not often write letters or make phone calls to express his longing for her, over time, the relationship between the couple will inevitably become indifferent, making the wife feel lonely and without spiritual support. Once this mentality develops, if a wife meets a suitable opposite sex at this time, she will lose the ability to resist temptation, leading to an extramarital affair. With the increase in the number of migrant workers, this situation is not uncommon in rural areas.

2. Resentment

Sexual life is a very important part of the life of a couple and is also the bond that maintains their relationship. If a husband has sexual dysfunction, or is too busy with work or career to neglect to give affection to his wife, or if the husband is indulging in wine and women outside and cannot meet his wife's normal physiological needs, over time, the wife will become resentful. At this time, if there are temptations outside, she is very likely to "cheer up".

3. Revenge

Some husbands are unfaithful to their wives and have affairs outside, and their wives may develop a revengeful mentality out of anger. They will think: You can have affairs outside, so why can't I?

4. Psychology of Loss

This mentality is often seen in couples who lack understanding before marriage and get married hastily, or even in flash marriages. After living together for a long time after marriage, they will gradually discover that the other party has many bad habits or certain physical defects. In this situation, it is easy for the woman to feel psychologically lost, which may lead to her cheating.

5. Superiority Psychology

Some girls are pretty or smarter than their husbands. If the husbands are unwilling to be proactive, it is easy for the wives to feel "disappointed with their husbands" and feel that their husbands are not worthy of them. Therefore, wives who are better than their husbands in all aspects are more likely to experience divorce, because there are likely to be men around them who are better than their husbands.

6. The psychology of reaching the target

Some women commit themselves to men they don't like for some purpose, such as money. Since they lack emotional foundation with their husbands, once their goals are achieved, they will feel that their husbands are either old or ugly, and the relationship will either end in divorce or they will find someone else.