Is it a sign of promiscuity that my girlfriend used to have too many friends?

In the love world of men and women, some people only meet one person in their life, and then they stay together wholeheartedly and grow old together. This situation is now extremely rare and is almost on the verge of extinction. Especially in the love of the younger generation, there will always be a few passers-by who come and go in a hurry. Going back and forth is bound to bring sadness, pain, and disappointment, but after experiencing it many times, you get used to it.

Those men and women who are called masters of love are mostly people who have experienced love many times. However, they will eventually stay with someone, and this person may be the end of their love. However, the problem also arises that not everyone has made many friends and had many relationships. Although it may not be that there has never been one, it will not be very often. Moreover, in the hearts of many couples, they care very much about how many boyfriends or girlfriends the other has had. What is particularly bizarre is that some people will feel resentful if their partner has one more time than them, and think that the other person is fickle or even promiscuous. Therefore, men and women attach great importance to their partner's love history.

In a man's view, if his girlfriend has dated many men before, his feelings will instantly turn cold and the relationship will not be able to continue. Because most men think that such women are too promiscuous. After all, they have had so many love experiences, and they have no idea what happened in them, and they are too embarrassed to ask.

If I ask rashly, I might uncover the woman's pain, but if I don't ask, I will feel guilty about it. In this dilemma, love cannot continue at all and will eventually separate. In fact, men have a very strong possessiveness, especially when they are in love. Everyone hopes that his girlfriend is flawless. Even if she is not that perfect, she doesn’t want to have too much "experience".

Most men have a common mentality that a woman who has had too many boyfriends is like "multiple-hand goods". How can they guarantee the "quality" when it is their turn? Although this concept is derogatory and has a certain degree of derogatory effect on women, it still makes some sense. First of all, if a woman is willing to have so many boyfriends, one of her behavior and psychology must be relatively open, or even particularly open, and it is not an exaggeration to call her promiscuous; secondly, if so many men fail to keep her or abandon her on their own initiative, then this kind of woman is very "dangerous".