Happy couples need to beware of three foul behaviors

Our human body language is rich, and different emotional expressions convey different feelings. The same is true in the life of both sexes. If you can convey the body language of love to your partner, I believe it will make the married life more fulfilling. Now let us learn more about it in detail.

Scenario 1: Kissing and hugging

Love signal: A gentle kiss that lingers on the cheek tells the other person: I'm glad to meet you! If other parts of the body join in the welcome ceremony, the message will be further strengthened. For example: A big, tight hug reflects wholehearted affection.

Red flag: Stiff, tightly pursed lips suggest a stressful mood and a desire to avoid intimacy. When hugging, if you deliberately keep an appropriate distance between your bodies, it means that you are doing it out of obligation rather than emotion.

Scenario 2: Argument

Love signals: The body language of a happy couple when they are arguing is very different from that of an unhappy couple. They may look angry, but they are also engaged; their bodies are facing each other and they are constantly looking into each other's eyes. This body language says “We have to fix this now!”

Red flag: Some body language signals that a couple's problems extend far beyond the immediate argument. The psychiatrist said: 'When he suddenly turned around and glared at her, he may have subconsciously wanted to threaten her and make her shut up. If her head turns, her eyes wander, and her arms are folded across her chest, she has made it clear: "What you say is not worth my attention!" If he has a blank expression on his face and his eyes are looking at the corner of the room, he is no longer listening but is thinking about how to get out! This may be the worst signal of all.

Scenario 3: Eating at a restaurant

Love signs: It is easy to tell whether a young couple is married in a restaurant. Generally, men and women in love always ignore the existence of food. The girl will hold her cheek with her hand and look at the other person, while the man, since he has a beautiful woman to eat, has already regarded fine wine and delicious food as dirt and talks freely. Married people are different. When the food is served, they pick up their chopsticks and eat it heartily. They don’t look at each other until they have finished eating, which means it’s time to pay the bill and leave. This is common practice, but you will also find that happy couples, even with children, always appear to be very close. They will often pay attention to each other: look at each other, give each other a smile, or raise their eyebrows and have a silent conversation.

Warning sign: Happy couples match each other's pace, while in problematic relationships, she may be halfway through her entree and he may already be drinking his tea. The seating arrangement for children during mealtimes is also crucial. If your husband sits on one side of you and your child sits in a high chair on the other side, then you may end up eating with your back to your husband all night.

Situation 4: Watching TV or reading on the sofa

Love Signs: Sweet lovers don't necessarily sit close to each other when they sit on the sofa. But even though they were sitting at opposite ends of the couch, they would often exchange glances and usually turn their bodies toward each other. Psychologists say that the interpretation of body language is not absolute and must be determined based on the situation. What is important is that both parties can reach a tacit understanding and often tell each other: "I know you are here. Yes, I love you."

Warning sign: In unhappy couples, there is no sense of unity between the two people. Their bodies tend to be oriented away from each other. When commercials are on, they don't take the opportunity to talk, but instead avoid the other party. For example: standing up and walking away, starting to read a magazine, or changing the channel.

In fact, when a couple lives together for a long time, time will slowly wear away the passion between them. Therefore, there will be fewer and fewer intimate behaviors and actions in life. This will also slowly affect the sex life between couples, so the editor recommends that couples do not give up on conveying their love to their partner through body language.

Be careful not to be kicked out of bed by your partner because of these three foul behaviors

Planting Strawberries

Many people like to bite each other randomly and plant "strawberries" on each other's bodies when they are "sexually excited". However, this behavior is not so unacceptable in winter, as clothes can cover it up. However, this is not convenient in summer. Although the other person knows that you are expressing your love, it is still embarrassing to be discovered by others.

Expressing love is necessary, but we also need to pay attention to the methods and ways. Even if you want to plant "strawberries", you have to do it in a place where ordinary people can't see them, otherwise it will cause trouble to others.

Forced to change positions

In sex, two people are equal. Even if you want to try new and exciting sexual methods, you must ask for your partner's consent. If the other party disagrees, don't force it. You must not beg the other party or tempt them with benefits in order to achieve your goal, and you are not allowed to force others to do something.

Forcing others to try a sexual method they don't like is extremely impolite. Although you are happy, others are suffering.

Not cleaning yourself

When engaging in sexual intercourse, special attention must be paid to hygiene. However, in real life, there are always some people who do not pay attention to hygiene. Not to mention taking a bath, they rarely even wash their hands. If you conduct sexual intercourse in this way, it won't be long before problems arise in the private parts of both parties and they become infected.

Paying attention to hygiene and washing your body before sex is a very important etiquette. It's not just to please the other person, it's more of a health need.

The above-mentioned foul behaviors are what I want to tell you today about some etiquette that both sexes should abide by, so everyone must remember them well. Don't break the rules easily, or you might risk being kicked off the bed. Only by respecting each other can you enjoy sex more comfortably.