5 Excuses Women Have for Not Finding a Partner

Often these leftover women have their own reasons and feel that these are the reasons for being leftover. So, what are some silly excuses for not being able to find a boyfriend? Do you want to understand women's sexual psychology?

1. Her reason for leaving everything to fate: “I can’t find my significant other”

The reason behind this: She is right. She didn't meet the right person. Because she was unwilling to take risks, she had already

Tell yourself that you will definitely lose. She refused to face the possible dangers of love. Her rejection of love is a cover-up for her lack of confidence.

Moreover, if someone persuades her to start a relationship, she will quickly admit: "I am a loser no matter what!" What kind of mother does such a self-depreciating woman have? Does her mother say more often: You are just

Is it that she needs to lose weight, stop cutting her hair, be more feminine, and go out more socially to find a man? Or that two-thirds of her sentences begin with "my poor daughter"? In order to get out of the pain of self-deprecation, she must resign herself to her fate.

Women may shift from "I am a waste" to "all men are waste". Oh, this is exactly what my mother always says!

How do you overcome this fear? Start learning self-confidence and recognizing your self-worth.

2. Her reason for being a female warrior: "Men are afraid of me"

The reason behind this: Of course men are afraid of her because she is strong and confident. No one saw that there was a hurt, crying child in her heart.

What childhood trauma is she trying to repair as she grows up? What is she rebelling against? Her father, her grandfather, her brother, her boss, her ex-boyfriend? Has she seen her mother repeatedly humiliated and secretly resolved not to repeat the same mistake?

Because she rejected the hope and need for an emotional life, she had to make herself more independent. She hopes to be her own life

Dominant, and she believes that no one can meet her requirements. Some might say she overestimates herself. But in fact, she has been hovering between inferiority and self-conceit.

How to overcome this fear? We must understand that before we conquer a man, we must first become the master of ourselves. Face up to your past.

3. Her reason for independence: “I love my freedom”

The reason behind this: She is busy with work, fitness, exhibitions, concerts, meeting friends, and vacations. But she didn't have 1

Minutes to yourself. Where is the time for a man in her schedule? In fact, she makes her life so full just to leave no room for a man to have a place in her life.

Where does this extreme desire for self-control and fear of losing control come from? It is likely that her parents like to give orders and always

It is judging her actions, always criticizing, always looking at her with a scrutinizing eye. If she hadn't been able to handle this kind of judgment when she was a little girl,

If she says "no" with a look of contempt, then when she grows up, she will not be able to face a man. So she chose to close herself off and leave no gaps.

4. Her romantic reason: "I am waiting for the most suitable person"

The reason behind this: She is a romantic girl who has not grown up yet and still thinks she is a superhero who can get whatever she wants. She may be

Appears to be smart, capable and clear-headed in many areas. But once she faces emotional problems, she is "blind"! She is waiting at the top of the ivory tower

Her Prince Charming. Her fears were hidden behind romance and pure love. But her life is a challenge to mediocrity.

Unfortunately, she will keep waiting because if she doesn't take this step, no one will. Especially when she doesn't answer

Affected by a reality: Prince Charming is never a real person, and people make mistakes, just like herself.

How to overcome this fear? Face the reality: go to the cinema alone or chat on dating websites.

5. Plato's Her Reason: "I don't like sex"

The reason behind this: She likes her job, has many friends around her, and in short, she knows how to manage interpersonal relationships.

There is no sex involved. What she fears is not love but sex. Many women don't realize this. Before, she had been able to face this fear in the arms of her partner, anyway.

Nowadays, celibacy has become accepted by everyone, so she simply adopts this form to avoid sex. As time went by, she became more interested in sex.

The fear will gradually deepen. At least she cannot feel at ease in today's sexualized society. Additionally, she worried that she couldn’t enjoy sex, which kept her stuck in an “abnormal” state.

How to overcome this fear? Increase your body's sensitivity through dance, movement and body therapy.