What is the psychology behind boys carrying condoms?

Should you carry condoms with you at all times?

A very talented and well-mannered boy is of course very popular with women. But I always put one or two condoms in my bag, and once my girlfriend accidentally discovered it and I was criticized.

What do you think?

1. Girls said:

——If I find out that this man always carries condoms with him

I am 100% sure that this man has problems. Not to mention having a relationship with him, whether or not I should continue to associate with him in the future is something I should consider.

——I think it is impossible for a normal and good man to carry condoms with him all the time. After all, it is a very personal item and it can easily cause misunderstandings. On the one hand, I would think that this man is very frivolous. Perhaps, he is dating me just because he has sex on his mind all the time. He is just waiting for the right opportunity. Because this opportunity is uncertain, he always carries props with him. Secondly, I would doubt the character of this man. Does he have many women? Does he have many love affairs? Does he have several relationships at the same time when he is dating me? Or does he have sex with any woman at will?

——I believe many women will have the same idea as me

It’s not because women are naturally suspicious, nor is it because their thoughts are conservative and feudal. Apart from anything else, convenience stores can be found everywhere nowadays, right? Just take a few steps in the streets and alleys, and you can be sure that there will be a convenience store within 5 minutes. As society develops, people's mindsets have become more open. Condoms can be bought in any convenience store. As for a grown man, does he carry condoms with him like a talisman every day? Could it be that he can't wait even for five minutes when he is in a hurry? In this case, this man either regards his girlfriend as a tool for venting his emotions, and he must be a nymphomaniac; or does his passion fade away after five minutes? In this case, this man either has a psychological problem, and he must have a sexual dysfunction.

——No matter what the assumption is, no matter what the excuse is, it is an abnormal phenomenon for a man to be fully equipped and ready at all times. Men always like to attribute the answers to all problems to the word "love", but the fact is often that not everything can be explained by "just one word: love".

——After all, for a woman, love is her soul

The body is part of her soul. The moment you give your soul to someone else, you must think carefully before doing so. A woman who is committed to love and responsible for herself will only give herself to a reliable man and will never be blinded by a sudden burst of passion. A responsible man who truly loves a woman must give his girlfriend the utmost honesty and respect. For the final step of having sex, you must get the woman's permission and consent. This is the most basic courtesy of a gentleman. I don't know whether wearing a condom at all times is an offense or indecent, but what is certain is that men like this are basically hard to trust. To entrust yourself to such a person is undoubtedly equivalent to pushing yourself to the edge of a cliff.

2. The boy said:

Why are women always so picky?

Is it true that a woman's IQ drops to zero once she falls in love? Nowadays, there are so few men who are willing to wear condoms. Carrying a condom with you means that the man is gentlemanly, civilized, and responsible to women. Why is he suspected? If you don’t wear a condom, you will be cursed by women. If you carry a condom with you, you will be despised by women. It’s really not easy to be a man. I feel sorry for the guy in the letter.

——Women always say that men don’t like wise women. In fact, this is not the case. The key is that most wise women are suspicious, so, to be precise, men do not like suspicious women. For example, if you criticize women who wear condoms, you are being too cunning, aren't you? Women have their periods every month, right? Don't women carry sanitary napkins with them to prevent their periods from coming unexpectedly?

——Actually, why is it called a "safe" condom?

It is to prevent accidents from happening and to ensure safety. What if your girlfriend dresses too sexily on a date? Sometimes we men find it hard to control ourselves. Situations can happen at any time. It would be too late to remedy the situation afterwards. It would be wiser to prepare for a rainy day.

- To be honest, unless a man loves his woman very much, which man would be willing to wear a condom? The difference between the feeling without a condom and with one is huge. Why should we put ourselves in a difficult position by having to put a layer of something between us? It is because we feel sorry for our women who are harming their bodies by taking medication that we will be more considerate and wear condoms consciously.

——Condoms appear in the intimate world of two people, exuding the color of warmth and protection. However, when they are found in a man’s wallet or pocket, the word “safety” is invisible. Instead, the half-noun, half-verb “condom” makes people imagine. Carrying it with you will inevitably give people a feeling of being ready to join the “battle” at any time. But is it a bit arbitrary to label a man as "unfaithful" simply based on an unopened condom package?

This issue should be viewed in two ways

Among the men who always carry condoms, some men may have chaotic private lives and cannot be sure when their next desire will come or the health status of their next sexual partner. They are unwilling to take risks or take responsibilities, so they have to start from themselves, carrying helmets with them like eating at a buffet; there are probably more boys who have many uncertainties, such as he is on his way to his girlfriend's house with whom he is in a long-distance relationship, or he and his girlfriend are in the stage of passionate love and the passion is about to explode but he doesn't want to face the embarrassment of losing the flames because of who goes to buy condoms, or he just bought a men's health magazine and put the gift into his pocket...

If your relationship with your boyfriend is in a period of healthy and stable development, although no further relationship has occurred yet, this possibility cannot be ruled out. As an adult woman, you should analyze rationally, objectively, comprehensively and comprehensively the reasons why your boyfriend always carries condoms with him. If he is a certain type of man, then there will be clues in other details besides this. After ensuring that he is not a man with unrestrained sexual attitudes and a casual private life, why not accept the beautiful and human side of men?

This condom is not the same as that one. A man who bargains with a woman over the issue of wearing a condom during sex is selfish and puts his own sensory enjoyment first. But a man who can wear a condom will undoubtedly not lose his composure on this issue. He may very well be looking forward to your relationship entering a deeper stage. Out of love for your body, I look forward to the day when body and mind will be united as soon as possible, and I take the initiative to assume responsibility for the sexual safety of both of us, and prepare for a rainy day.

However, it is also worth reminding boys who use condoms that although carrying condoms with you can help you in case of emergency, do not store them in your bag for a long time, because condoms need to be properly stored to ensure safety. If stored in a hot and humid environment, it will become thinner and brittle, and easily break and tear.