How can a man conquer a woman's "deepest part"?

As the saying goes, a woman's heart is like autumn clouds. Indeed, women's hearts are changeable and unpredictable, which makes most male pursuers unable to start, miss opportunities, give up halfway, return empty-handed, and fail. Below we will analyze the psychological characteristics and rules of women, so that men can enhance their ability to decipher women's hearts.

Speak your mind

For rational women, it is better to express love directly instead of discussing philosophy. If you want to pursue a rational woman, you must first attract her with the strong magic of love, attack her in a straightforward way, or express your true feelings. Using emotions to overcome reason is the best way to pursue a rational woman. Because, generally speaking, rational women give people a sense of intimidation with their wise temperament, and many men tend to stay away from them. Rational women have fewer opportunities to receive love, but when they are loved, they can feel the presence of love more.

Thoughtful

If you want to pursue an introverted woman, you can show her care and consideration, allow her to talk patiently when she is in a bad mood, and create opportunities for her to vent her emotions. Because introverted girls usually don’t like to express their emotions, they can easily feel depressed over trivial matters, which can lead to violent emotional outbursts. If you can bring balance and harmony to her inner self, you will gradually become her confidant and lover.

Leaving room for maneuver

If you pursue a woman with a strong self-esteem, you should leave her room when you are rejected, satisfy her self-esteem, and then seize the opportunity to express your feelings in a tactful way when her inner attitude changes, which will often have a miraculous effect. This is because women with strong self-esteem are often very confident in their looks, and when they have suitors, they will often respond with a cold response. Because of this, they pay special attention to the impression they leave on others. After rejecting a suitor, they usually have some self-reflection. The feelings that originally transcended rationality gradually cool down, and a sense of worry arises in their hearts. They would think that if the facts prove that they are too heartless, the other party will think that they are too cruel and uneducated. This is exactly what they care about and don't want to accept. This worry will make them weigh the pros and cons, and thus generate a willingness to re-evaluate their pursuers. This is also a good opportunity for the pursuer to express his love, so don't miss it.

Braking with static

Sometimes, a woman may appear to not care about you on the surface, but in fact she is full of contradictions inside, because repeated rejections will drive suitors away and she may suffer the pain of being alone in her room. If you pursue her too closely, the woman's "defense instinct" will reject you. This is also due to the woman's psychological tendency to be competitive, unwilling to admit defeat, and curious. As long as you can grasp this psychology of women and master the rhythm of pursuit, you will be able to win their hearts and get happy love.

Straight to the point

Most women like straightforward expressions. Although they may feel a little embarrassed to express themselves straightforwardly on a first date, they find such men very charming and find it hard to resist straightforward expressions. On the contrary, they hate men who beat around the bush, stammer, and stop talking, and are overly reserved. Therefore, when a man invites a woman, he should be straightforward. If the other party does not like it, she may refuse by hinting or finding other reasons. If the other party remains silent, you can judge that she will not refuse your invitation. At the same time, you have to make her feel that she "went on the date because she really couldn't find a reason to refuse". By doing so, you can comfort her and tell her that she is not a casual girl and she went on the date only because of your earnest request.

Indirect attack

Women have a psychological defense instinct. They often use words to conceal their true intentions and do not like others to reveal their true intentions. If a man is too smart and directly tells a woman's thoughts, it will often cause disgust. Therefore, when pursuing a woman, one must master the art of speaking, observe her expressions, speak tactfully, and be accurate in knowing when to stop.

Calm and relaxed

Women have a natural instinct for self-psychological defense and are wary of men. They don't like the following two types of men: one is the man who is silent and dumb in front of women; the other is the man who is talkative and eloquent and behaves exaggeratedly in front of women. Both of these types of people are unnatural. Therefore, men should remain calm, sincere and natural in order to eliminate women's guard and win their hearts.

Breaking the routine

Generally speaking, girls' lives are dull and they have a strong desire for change. They hope that something unexpected will happen to add some variety to their lives. Therefore, they do not like rigid and conventional men. Of course, before catering to women's desire for excitement and change, you must first let them intellectually confirm that you are a stable person. Only then can you break the rules, create new ideas, and make it interesting. Otherwise, you will end up making things worse and give women the impression that you are frivolous and slow.

First into the role

The speaker's emotions can infect the audience. Once you understand this psychology, you will know that one of the ways to win a woman's heart is through skillful conversation. When talking to a woman, always incorporate your personal feelings about the event and strengthen the subjective color of your narrative, thereby increasing her interest in what you are saying. Therefore, when a man talks with a woman, he should first get into the role, take the initiative, mix his own emotions and likes and dislikes into his subjective consciousness, and enthusiastically create a conversation atmosphere. Remember not to suppress your inner feelings and extinguish the fire of passion.