Why do women cheat? Is it out of emptiness or looking for excitement?

Modern men rarely take responsibility for extramarital sex, because both parties are just getting what they need, and once they turn around, everyone is clear. Men become indifferent, women become less pretentious, and between adult men and women, sex and love are separated as much as possible.

Although this is true, people are still much more tolerant of married men than married women. Men's cheating can be explained as relieving work pressure, playing around, unspoken rules in the business world, men's desire to conquer, etc., as if it is something that cannot be helped; then what are the reasons for women's cheating?

But it turns out that married women are increasingly enjoying the pleasures of life that come with cheating (either emotionally or physically). So why do women cheat?

1. Make up for the emptiness in life and seek psychological and physiological compensation

This is probably the most common reason why married women cheat.

For example, if the marriage is not happy enough, the husband is not considerate, the husband cannot accompany her often, the husband is unromantic, the husband is busy with work and neglects the family, etc., the woman is depressed and unable to find relief, so she hopes to get emotional comfort outside of marriage, which is to seek psychological compensation; for example, most married women have a small living space, and apart from their family and children, they have completely lost themselves.

When you finish taking care of your family and face yourself, you often feel empty inside, confused and terrified about your gradually disappearing youth; for example, a successful career woman, after work, faces endless emptiness and loneliness in life; for example, the husband is in poor health and cannot satisfy the woman physically, or the husband's way of caressing is too rough or too weak, the woman cannot get what she wants, and there is a lack of communication between husband and wife, etc.

With the development of the Internet, women are no longer mostly homebodies. They have more and more opportunities to contact the outside world. In addition, there are many men who are eyeing women on the Internet, including many excellent people who are like-minded. After a few exchanges, they can quickly achieve derailment. In some virtual home sites on the Internet, there are even more women who buy houses for one night than men. This shows how much convenience the Internet provides for women to make friends.

Using this quick way to comfort the mind and body is the most common way for women... With a man outside of marriage to fill their lives, women will gradually cherish their existing years, become graceful, and gain new life and self-identity in the emotional world.

This involves the playful tactics of a smart woman and a stupid woman. Smart women only use this kind of compensation as a adjustment. After some women in virtual families online buy houses, they can quickly put a label on them so that they can accept, transfer and eliminate it quickly. Therefore, most women on the Internet now only accept ons, which means achieving their goals without harming the family. In fact, this can be achieved by imitating men's greed. All men hope that there will be colorful flags flying outside and a red flag flying at home.

2. Women also seek novelty in marriage

Marriage is not the grave of love, but it is the place where passion dissipates.

Marriages that last more than three to five years will more or less experience a waning of passion.

But the fading of passion only refers to the fading of passion towards a specific object (one's husband), not that women themselves have no passion. Faced with an increasingly dull marriage, women may also have the idea of ​​pursuing novelty, the desire to face the throbbing again, and the need to experience passionate sex.

But generally speaking, many women will suppress their true desires, use family and children to divert their attention, and gradually come to believe that such a plain life is the real life.

But a woman who understands life and pursues quality of life will always be restless. She will fantasize, she will cheat, she will look for sources of excitement outside of marriage, and she will make her life shine with a different kind of brilliance. So, for the sake of novelty, women will also cheat.

3. Satisfy the desire to conquer

Like men, married women also use the number of men they have as an indicator of conquest, to measure their own charm and ability. This type of woman is very aggressive and greedy. She regards getting a man as conquering a hill. She will constantly cross such hills in her life and experience the sense of victory and satisfaction at the moment of standing on the top of the hill. A large proportion of this type of women in XX virtual families are like this. They often deliberately hook you and make you obsessed with her, and then dump you in a cool way, answering calls one after another every day.

Men are no longer the sun that women dare not look up to, and they are not that dazzling in life. Sometimes, men outside of marriage are just indicators of charm. Conquering one of them will increase a woman's charm a little.

This type of woman also understands tenderness, but is better at controlling men. He may look weak and frail on the outside, but he must be very strong and determined on the inside and will persevere...but he will often lose interest after achieving his goal and turn around and leave, giving the usually strong man an extremely strong sense of frustration.

4. Seeking a balance in marriage

This type of woman probably lives a very helpless and depressed life. Being the passive party in the family. They have gradually become numb to their husbands' debauchery and constant philandering, so out of inner indignation, they will cheat in order to find a semblance of balance and numb themselves.

This kind of cheating is often tragic, full of helplessness in life, and perhaps, women’s deep self-blame… When women don’t have the strength to compete with men normally, they can only take a passive approach – if you fall, I fall too, and we’re even!

5. Pure Indulgence

This is probably what people with strong sexual desire or extremely rich emotions would do. Her psychological and physical needs cannot be met in marriage at all. So she kept hunting for men and getting entangled with different men, just to indulge herself and to calm her own desires.

Or maybe this type of woman is not really eager to indulge herself, but the pressure from life is too great, and she has no suitable channel to release it, so she takes it out on her body - the more she indulges, the more she forgets about reality, and the more relaxed she becomes.

However, women are not simple animals. Their thoughts are complicated and it is very likely that multiple factors combined lead them to cheat, allowing them to enjoy life from different aspects... But no matter what, now that men's cheating is accepted, women's cheating is not something difficult to talk about. You just need to be a smart woman, know what you want and what you absolutely cannot want, then stick to the bottom line and enjoy life to the fullest.

I saw a woman’s signature on the XX Family website before. The signature said, “For a woman to have only one man in her whole life may be the ultimate happiness, or it may be the ultimate tragedy. I cannot achieve the ultimate happiness, so I cannot have only one man in my whole life.”