The most important thing for men to do when they cheat is to wipe their mouths

Cheating is a taboo in dating, but it has become the most popular and dangerous game between men and women in love today. I used to hear a saying: "It's not important to eat secretly, the most important thing is to wipe your mouth!" But there is another saying: "It's not important to eat secretly, there's no need to wipe your mouth!" When eating secretly, should you wipe your mouth or not? Boys and girls have different interpretations. Let's see who is right and who is wrong?

Boys: The most important thing to do if you eat secretly is to wipe your mouth

When will a man cheat? It is really hard to predict. There are so many wonderful things and temptations out there that occasional cheating is sometimes unavoidable. But it’s okay to eat secretly, but remember to wipe your mouth after eating, otherwise you will bear the consequences!

The mentality of stealing food:

How does it feel to cheat? The feeling of cheating is very complicated, and it feels different at different times.

For example, before cheating, people usually feel depressed; when cheating, they feel nervous and excited; and after cheating, they will of course feel guilty.

Some people don't feel guilty after cheating, but feel satisfied and think they are very attractive.

So why steal food?

There are many reasons. Some people need to adjust their mood because they are bored, while others like the excitement.

However, I think: "Cheating can maintain a relationship."

When a relationship lasts too long, it will fade and become tasteless. After you cheat on your partner, you will feel guilty, and guilt will make you treat your lover better.

Haha, this is what Eric Tsang (Weibo) said in the movie “A Real Man”. Usually this only applies after marriage.

Stealing without mercy

When a man cheats, he's just doing it for the sake of pleasure. The one you love is always your wife or girlfriend. A man should know his bottom line and be loyal to the person he loves. A man who is promiscuous is not a good man. We often say that men can be romantic but not vulgar.

What is considered romantic? What is considered vulgar?

Those who steal for the sake of stealing are obscene. Dayo Wong said that men have "three don'ts": don't take the initiative, don't resist, and don't take responsibility. Those who "actively steal" are vile.

Why wipe your mouth?

There is a big difference between boys cheating and girls cheating. If women's cheating is idealism, then men's cheating is materialism. The purpose is to relieve stress and relax, completely for the sake of getting a feeling of release. Therefore, men will not put too much emotion into cheating, so they will definitely wipe their mouths after cheating!

Some people say that love is like a cup of tea, which is fragrant and pleasant at first. But it will fade slowly over time. Without some passion as a seasoning, relationships can easily fall apart. In fact, this is also one of the reasons why men cheat. It is precisely because there are cracks in the relationship that men feel extremely depressed and have no place to vent, which leads to cheating.

But precisely because he still loves her in his heart and feels guilty after cheating, he will be doubly nice to his lover to make up for it, and the rift in his love is thus healed. This is exactly the concept of nature's endless cycle of "circles"! When things reach an extreme, they return to the beginning. The same principle applies to love. After cheating, the cracked relationship can return to the sweetness of first love. Of course, the premise is that she doesn't know you're cheating!

Girls: Don’t wipe your mouth if you eat secretly

Cheating is, of course, not just for boys. Nowadays, since men and women are equal, it is common for girls to cheat! However, nowadays, we girls insist on the view that "don't wipe your mouth after cheating". After cheating, we reveal small clues in front of our boyfriends, making them realize "My wife is having an affair with someone else?!", and we can make them obey us at any time in the future!

Cheating is not just for boys:

For a long time, it seemed natural for boys to cheat, and it had become a routine. In this case, it is normal for girls to cheat.

There are usually several reasons why girls cheat: one, their relationship with their boyfriend fades; two, they become bored after dating for too long and need excitement and novelty; three, they find something they desire in the cheating partner that they do not have in their boyfriend; four, the cheating partner has excellent conditions, such as being rich or handsome.

But I think cheating for girls is a little different from cheating for boys. Girls will only take that step if they really have feelings for the other person, but boys are more casual.

That's right. In fact, in the final analysis, girls cheat not only for the sake of seeking novelty, but also for a sense of revenge, thinking "you do it on the first day, I do it on the fifteenth day", why can boys cheat but we can't!

Gender equality! In addition to being able to cheat, girls also need to show some clues to their boyfriends and wait for him to get nervous! You hit the point of our discussion! Girls cheat without wiping their mouths!

Stealing: Licking but not eating

When a girl cheats, it is nothing more than a warning to her boyfriend to pay attention to the current situation. His girlfriend is still very attractive. If he doesn't pay attention to her or care about her, the only outcome is a breakup!

If you cheat just to make your boyfriend pay attention to you, then you have to set a bottom line for your cheating, which is "licking but not eating", that is, just play ambiguously with others and have a meal or go shopping together. Later, when your boyfriend asks you where you were going, just say you were going out with friends. If he is worried about you and notices that you have been acting abnormally recently, he will definitely ask you a few more questions, and then you will have achieved your goal.

Never let cheating develop into sexual intercourse, otherwise it will be very difficult to clean up in the end.

But seriously, if a girl cheats, she will always come back, because we will not give up the relationship of several years with our boyfriend for a boy we have only known for a few weeks. We always know what we want.

Rules of eating

You still have to be careful and have skills when cheating. Whether you want to make your boyfriend nervous or satisfy your own desires, you still have to abide by the rules of the game.

That's how love is. When two people get along, they must always be fair. The degree to which I love you must be the same as your love for me. So in the end, the phrase "You do the first day, I do the fifteenth" is extended. Why do we cheat on each other and seek revenge? In fact, sometimes it is okay to be patient and suffer a little loss? Just do this, I hope that boyfriends will respect our losses and turn back. Cheating is useless!