One key factor that determines the quality of couple's sex life

The love between husband and wife is as deep as the sea. Only couples with deep affection can have a harmonious and happy sex life. Therefore, the depth of the relationship between husband and wife is related to the enjoyment of sexual life by both parties.

"Holding your hand, growing old together with you", between lovers, husband and wife, walking hand in hand or arm in arm, it is a symbol of happiness

Furthermore, hugging and cuddling are by no means the "exclusive" of young people. Skin contact between husband and wife is as important as sexual intercourse. Recent research results show that human sense of smell and breath also play a decisive role in love. Dr. Kaplan, an American biochemist, believes that the fragrance that a woman gains as she matures can make a man cling to her more than her hair color and plump breasts. On the contrary, women often feel relieved after marriage because the male scent can have a positive effect on menstruation. Dr. Kaplan conducted a smell experiment on women. He placed several rows of very ordinary chairs in the waiting room of a gynecological hospital and smeared substances with masculine smell on some of the chairs. Strangely, the ladies who came for treatment would sit on the chairs with masculine smell without any prior agreement. When asked why, they all said without hesitation: "After all, it makes me feel relaxed and happy." This confirms from a biochemical perspective why couples often want to be close to each other.

This kind of attachment not only deepens the love between the two parties, but is also the instinctive need and yearning of the human body.

The artificial separation of people and sleeping in separate beds just violates this natural law. Secondly, holding hands, cuddling and hugging are several ways of satisfying skin contact. The pleasure and excitement they bring can never be replaced by other means such as words and sexual intercourse. Their role in deepening the relationship between couples should not be underestimated. Therefore, middle-aged and elderly couples should, whenever possible, try to have more activities and opportunities for skin contact, including walking and shopping arm in arm, watching movies and TV together, and after going to bed, even if they do not have sexual intercourse, they should lean on each other, hug each other, and sleep with their legs crossed, so as to satisfy the desire for skin contact as much as possible. Sleep will be sweeter with this psychological satisfaction.

Skin contact promotes the deepening of feelings, which in turn ignites sexual passion. Feelings are the basis of sex, and sex is the necessity of deep feelings. With love, there is motivation to overcome sexual obstacles; with love, there is motivation to improve sexual ability; with love, there is guarantee to implement sexual health.

To sum up, husband and wife must be considerate, understanding, and trust each other and work together to build a loving family.