Revealed: The four killers of Chinese marriage

Recently, the Ministry of Civil Affairs released the "Statistical Bulletin on Social Service Development in 2014", which showed that a total of 3.637 million couples registered for divorce in accordance with the law across the country in 2014. Statistics show that my country's divorce rate has been increasing for 12 consecutive years since 2003. The number of divorce registrations in Beijing has increased for 12 consecutive years, and last year it led all major cities in the country with more than 55,000 couples.

The main "killers" that kill Chinese marriages in seconds are:

A convenient social tool

Social software such as WeChat and Momo provide a platform for lonely men and women to get to know each other. These men and women are both married and unmarried. But some relationships are nothing more than love affairs between men and women. Physiologically and psychologically, your spouse is unique. This greatly increases the chances of divorce. People outside the besieged city want to get in, and people inside the besieged city want to get out. Divorce is something I have to be prepared for.

2. Simplified divorce procedure

Many times, people don't give up because of failure; they give up because of tiredness. If the divorce procedure is more complicated than the marriage procedure and the review process is longer - then, will so many people still get divorced at the drop of a hat? Before the divorce is completed, they may have reconciled. Divorce is a piece of cake, plus property division is clearer. If you leave, are there any sequelae?

Three abnormal social rhythms

The pressure of life increases and the pace of society accelerates. First you have to survive, then you can live. How can you expect a happy life if you can't even survive to a satisfactory level? The romance before marriage is replaced by the pots and pans after marriage. Poor couples have many worries, and they have to calculate everything including food, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. One has to become a slave to money, but there is no way to get more income. It was so annoying that they kept arguing and finally got a divorce.

Four passionate extramarital affairs

For many married men and women, cheating has an inexplicable temptation. When people are dissatisfied with their spouse in one way or another, these male and female mistresses are particularly likely to take advantage of the situation. Those who have a strong sense of responsibility will intuitively restrain their body and mind and not betray. If you think that family is dispensable, then you don't have a strict concept of cheating. Extramarital affairs are undoubtedly the most deadly killer.

Hopefully, the divorce rate won’t rise any further in 2015. Marriage is always beautiful...