A sentence that makes a cheating man feel guilty

Feelings are a science. In the world of emotions, the knowledge that men and women need to learn can be said to be endless. Some people treat feelings as a game, so they are constantly hurt. It is normal for a man to cheat, but how should a wife deal with it calmly? Today, the editor will analyze the love guide for you from the perspective of love psychology. Let's see how to deal with a man cheating!

Husband, if you want to cheat, go ahead

Husband, I said this not to show that I don't love you or value you; but I understand that men's curiosity is like the snow in winter, it doesn't fall or stop falling just because I say so. Rather than letting you hold it tightly and let it take root and sprout, it's better to let you go hunting for novelties, experience and feel heartache. Because "only when you have seen through all the scenery, will you accompany me to watch the long flow of water"; and let you know that all women who look at them from a distance seem so understanding and gentle, but once you look at them up close, they are just like that.

Husband, this doesn't mean I'm not sad, resentful or upset.

There are many temptations outside. If you, as a person and a man, feel oppressed in front of me, I would rather you find some comfort and pleasure from other women. Then, stay with me quietly and grow old with me. Because I know very well that I can prevent this but not that, and excessive tension will make me miserable. I don't like to be like a sloppy shrew, wantonly showing off my ugliness and weakness.

Husband, I do this because of my confidence and pride.

I believe you are just going there secretly, and what you still miss is our home, our children and our beauty; you will find your way back. If, if, you really fall in love with that "Xing" and want to be with her at all costs, then I will let you go. I don't want to tie you down, restrain you and kill your love for my so-called happiness. Just remember to leave the house to me. Because it is really difficult for a woman to live with a child and buy another house. Moreover, this nest is built by me bit by bit like a bird building a nest, and I don't want an unrelated woman to enjoy all these memories and warmth that originally belonged to us.

Of course, I will give you a period of repentance.

I am afraid that you will regret and want to find me but can't. However, three to five months is enough, not too long. What if someone else enters my life at that time, and I will no longer choose you? Moreover, if it is too long, even if there is no one around me, even if you pay a lot of maintenance fees, maybe I will not accept you again. Because a long wait will hurt my self-esteem and pride. At that time, no matter how painful it is, I don't want you.

Husband, after seeing this, if you are still thinking about your "fishy" words, then you should go. Just remember to pay attention to hygiene. You also know that I am in poor health and have a low resistance, so don't let me get sick; remember that there are a lot of dishes waiting for you to wash at home; remember that the child will call daddy when he hears footsteps; remember that I am afraid of the dark and need someone to accompany me; remember...

Men cheating, no matter how guilty they feel, they will still cheat

So what makes men cheat? Marriage counselor M. Gray Newman reviewed past research on male infidelity and found that most answers came from wives' perspectives. He wondered if he could get a more realistic answer if he asked men. To this end, Newman surveyed 200 husbands, including those who had affairs and those who did not, to find out the real reasons why they cheated. Here are some of his conclusions

1. 66% of men feel guilty when they cheat

It's not just shameless bastards who cheat. In fact, Newman points out, 68 percent of men who cheat never think about being unfaithful, and almost all of them wish they hadn't. But guilt, apparently, won't stop a man from cheating.

So, even if your man swears that he will always be faithful, you should not believe him easily. You should remind him when necessary and supervise him when necessary.