Eight weapons for girls to be favored

Love is like a war: if you want to do your job well, you must first sharpen your tools. If you want to get true love, you must understand their minds. To learn how to get along with others, this article will give you the "8 secret weapons" to continuously upgrade your relationship. Please think carefully, choose the right time and practice more, and you will be invincible in the love field.

Secret weapon 1: Weakness

When to use: In the early stages of a relationship, or any time you need help.

Reason for use: Boys like to be heroes. When helping girls, boys instantly feel heroic. From small things like moving things around to big things like financial assistance, as long as he feels that he is useful and needed by you, he will feel proud. He who helps you will love you more. Only girls who need boys are attractive.

Tips for use: There are two tips for using this weapon. First, do not give random opinions or blind commands, as this will erase his masculinity and make him disgusted. Second, be grateful. No matter how small the favor he has done for you, thank him, praise him, and treat him as a hero. This way you will get more affection from boys in the future.

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Secret weapon 2: Let him act like a spoiled brat

Applicable time: when boys encounter setbacks and frustrations.

Reason for use: Heroes also get tired, and boys also have hard work. Don't put too much pressure on them. Boys want someone to love them and take care of them instead of their mothers. Deep down, they all like girls who allow them to act like a spoiled child in front of them. When a boy is frustrated, he needs your maternal protection.

Tips for use: Never laugh at a boy who is in trouble or frustration. At this moment, he needs your affirmation the most. He can rely on your warmth to relax himself and rebuild his confidence.

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Secret weapon three: Keep it mysterious

Applicable time: When the relationship between two people is unclear.

Reasons for use: Boys are very curious. When faced with a girl whose inner thoughts and motivations are difficult to understand, this sense of mystery is an attraction that attracts them to explore and discover her secrets. Boys are born with a desire to conquer. The more reserved, inexplicable and difficult to control you are, the more fascinated they will be. Don't let boys think you are easily available. A boy once complained about girls who were always submissive, "She fell down before I even raised my gun." So, no matter how attracted you are to him, you can't act too impatient.

Tips for use: Keep a certain distance to achieve beauty. In order to finally conquer you and accompany you, boys will not only not feel it is hard, but will find it endless fun.

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Secret weapon 4: Give him some flexibility

Applicable time: When the relationship is stable but fatigue arises over time.

Reason for use: There is a saying that "Men need respect and women need attention". The best way to respect a boy is to give him a flexible space so that he can breathe fresh air freely and show his skills. Boys are reluctant to be "bound" by love. They often call to ask about their whereabouts, filter their friends and hobbies, etc. It's like imprisoning them in a cage. Boys may feel tired of relationships from time to time and want to "escape".

Tips for use: Smart girls should reduce their desire to control, let them go out and relax, and never treat boys as private property at any time or place.

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Weapon 5: Keep silent when appropriate

Applicable times: When a boy brags to you; when a boy has something on his mind.

Reasons to use: Boys always like to show off to girls, and all you have to do is listen. Because he just wants you to "admire" him, remember to give him an affirmative look from time to time. When a boy brags in front of you, it is often just a sign of lack of confidence. If you fail to listen, his self-confidence, which is difficult to build, will collapse. Many times, boys seem to have a lot on their mind but are unwilling to talk about it. The girls took the trouble to guess but often ended up complaining. In such situations, it's best not to speak.

Tips for use: Remain silent even when the boy is not making any progress. It is rare for a boy to remain unmoved throughout his life; most boys will always have periodic mood swings and behavioral adjustments. Whipping a fast bull often backfires; boys don't always need encouragement.

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Secret weapon six: Stay tolerant

Applicable time: When a boy is obsessed with some trivial things that you think are meaningless; when he has contact with other women.

Reason for use: Boys expect tolerance from girls, which is often their best motivation and a real, constant need. You have to allow him to play computer games day and night, or to have a hobby of doing puzzles, and let him spend the weekend playing cards and drinking tea with his buddies when he should have been shopping with you, because boys need to return to their youth from time to time, which is a reappearance of the psychological desire to escape from their mother's excessive love and care when they were teenagers.

Tips for use: Boys naturally like to find and appreciate the beauty of the opposite sex. You should be tolerant of his normal interactions with other girls. Boys are not as fickle as you think. In fact, if he has a good appreciation ability, he will most likely love you well.

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Secret weapon seven: Depreciate yourself to retreat in order to advance

Suitable time: Girls with superior conditions and ordinary boys get along

Reasons for use: If you are obviously better than the boy you like, you can adopt a form of respectful self-presentation in the relationship, belittling yourself in front of him, exposing your weaknesses, and belittling your achievements. This creates proximity and intimacy.

Tips for use: It is an indisputable fact that yin is stronger than yang. Boys' self-confidence is sometimes very shaky. Once a girl becomes strong, the boy becomes timid and inferior and stops moving forward.

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Secret weapon eight: moderate jealousy and envy

Suitable time: When the sensitivity of love decreases and you feel like an old married couple.

Reason for use: A girl who doesn't know how to be jealous is as boring as a ball that doesn't bounce when you hit it. The right amount of jealousy and envy at the right time can prove your love and respect for her and satisfy her vanity. Make him feel that you are easy to coax, and his jealousy will go away after a little coaxing. In this way, he will feel at ease with you. Boys want to know whether girls have a special liking for him, but they are not willing to say it directly due to their male self-esteem. You have to quietly make him feel that he is the only one in your heart.

Tips for use: When using jealousy to maintain the sensitivity of love, please note: you cannot dwell on the same thing every time, and try to express it in a coquettish tone.