Nine lies men tell when they want to break up

Often some women say they can’t break up even if they try ten times, but men will really break up after they say it once. Because when a woman says she wants to break up, it mostly means she wants to keep the other person, but when a man says he wants to break up, it means he has really made up his mind. When a man loves you, he can balance work and love. Love is even the driving force for him to strive forward in his work. When it comes to breaking up, men use the fact that love affects their careers as the reason for breaking up.

1. We are not suitable

The feeling of love when we first fell in love has gradually faded with the passage of time. Now that I'm tired of it, I leave you with these words. As the saying goes, things have changed and people have changed, that's it. The tacit understanding and frequent telepathy during love will eventually be hit hard by a man's "inappropriate" word, which will wipe out all the good memories.

The man uses this as a reason to break up, the reason is sufficient and the facts are obvious. The woman cannot see the truth and instead blames herself for not being able to cooperate with the man well. After the breakup, the woman continues to think about the man’s fabricated stories and replans her direction of choosing a partner. One day she will even thank the man for his guidance.

2. We have no future

The future of two people can only be created by working together. When a man says something like this, it proves that he no longer wants to work for your future. The vows of love we made when we were in love were just an illusion. The man had enough foresight. He analyzed the direction of love from countless aspects, and the final conclusion was that the end of love is the end of the song and the separation of people.

The woman nodded in agreement to the man's analysis and admired his wisdom. A short pain is worse than a long one, a day is worse than a day. Since you can't escape the future, it's better to end it early. Several years later, the woman reaped her own happiness. Recalling the man's foresight, she couldn't help but sigh at how correct her choice was.

3. Love has affected my career

When a man loves you, he can balance work and love. Love is even the driving force for him to strive forward in his work. When it comes to breaking up, men use the fact that love affects their careers as the reason for breaking up.

Of course, women understand that men put their careers first and that a good man has ambitions. If possible, women are willing to wait until the man is successful in his career before renewing their relationship. However, time is always a person's biggest enemy. After several years, the man and the woman each started their own families, and the seemingly convincing excuse for breaking up had long been forgotten.

4. You have too many shortcomings

I'm sure many women smiled bitterly in their hearts when they heard this reason for breaking up. When a man is pursuing a woman, the woman is a flawless work of art and the most sacred goddess in the man's heart. As time goes by and years pass, works of art lose their original value and goddesses no longer hold an important position in men's minds.

Men will always find some flaws in women's lives and use this as a reason to break up. It’s a pity that some women cannot see through men’s true intentions. They would rather promise men that they will correct their “shortcomings” than face the fact that men no longer love them. It is not until after the breakup that the woman blames herself for her shortcomings. And men's "accusations" are likely to become the root cause of women's inferiority complex

5. My parents don’t agree

When you are in love, there are only two people in the world, and there is no room for any third person except each other in your eyes. Friends and relatives are also ignored. A man will say: "I love you. Even if everyone in the world opposes, I will not give up our love." Were you moved to tears?

When a man is under pressure from his family, his confidence will be shaken. What his parents whispered in his ear influenced his decision. In the end, he broke up with her, citing his parents' interference. The poor woman will be skeptical about this excuse, and may even try to persuade the man to be her parent and help him overcome family difficulties. But the man still said the same thing: "They won't agree."

6. I have done something wrong to you, and I am no longer qualified to love you

A man's promise is never reliable. He once promised the woman: "I will never do anything to let you down in this life." But a man's love for someone else or the intervention of a third party can cause love to shift. A man must choose between two women.

So, he confessed his mistakes to you, but he was with another woman. Even though his confession received the woman's sympathy and forgiveness. The woman planned to give the man another chance, but the man had already made up his mind and would not accept the woman's forgiveness on the grounds that he was not qualified.

7. Love is nothing

Life is precious, but love is more precious. If it is for freedom, both can be abandoned. A man once said to a woman, "I am willing to be your slave and serve you for the rest of my life." As time goes by, men regard love as a bondage and women as a burden, and the pursuit of freedom becomes men's first goal.

Men tell women how precious and desirable freedom is, and that love is the biggest evil that hinders freedom. Seeing that the man had completely lost interest in love, the woman had no choice but to break up, and the man thus escaped the stigma of abandoning the woman.

8. You don’t listen to me anymore

A woman once said to a man, "I will listen to you in everything." This sweet words expressing loyalty became a handle for the man to exploit. When a man intends to break up, he will deliberately find some things that make it difficult for the woman and let the woman do what he wants. When the woman goes against the man's wishes, the man uses this as a reason to show that their love has come to an end.

Faced with the man's well-founded accusations, the woman is unable to put up an effective resistance. When the man proposes to break up, the woman is still thinking about the charges the man has put on her. When she realizes it is a trap, it is too late.

9. I don’t love you anymore

We advocate a frank breakup, but sometimes frankness is also a strategy used by men. A man has done something wrong and wants to abandon the woman. In the process of looking for an excuse to break up, he racks his brains and tries every possible means, but he just can't find a suitable one.

Finally, he suddenly realized that since he could not hide any reason from a woman, it would be better to be frank and speak out. So the man directly told the woman the fact that he didn't love her. The woman was shocked when she first heard it, but faced with his frankness, she felt that the man was very generous, so she cooperated with the man and fulfilled his wish.