So amazing! The hormonal effects of moaning in couples' sexual lives

During sex, watching the expression of enjoyment on his partner's face and hearing the sounds of her pleasure are huge stimulations for a man, indicating that a woman is enjoying the pleasure of moving toward orgasm. So what does a woman's scream sound like during orgasm, and how does this sound seduce men? It is hard to imagine that a "silent" sexual intercourse process lacking verbal communication and other sexual sounds can be an exciting and memorable successful sex.

The sounds during sex come from our own verbal communication, moans and laughter during sexual excitement or orgasm, as well as music and sounds from the outside world.

The famous psychologist Albert Temelbien once designed the sources of "the overall impression of a message": 7% comes from language, 38% comes from the emotions expressed in the language, and 55% comes from facial expressions. Among them, although language as sound only accounts for a small part, the emotions expressed by language account for a considerable proportion.

Verbal communication is an important form of sexual communication. When people speak, the vibrations in their voices express emotions and can stimulate our imagination. Language consists not only of words, but also of timbre, pitch and volume.

Using words to convey sexual demands to others or to respond to their sexual demands can elevate general emotional exchanges to rational understanding. Human love is different from sexual love in the animal world. Its important basis is emotional communication through language communication.

Due to the influence of cultural level and concepts, the use of language in sexual communication often has ambiguous characteristics. Because even couples will not express their love openly, and their language communication is also more implicit. There are hundreds of words used by couples to express their desire for sexual intercourse. For example, very common language exchanges such as "Let's go to bed" have the underlying meaning of the desire for sexual intercourse.

Verbal communication does not necessarily refer only to sexual innuendo. The man telling the woman sensational stories and anecdotes, or both of them joking before going to bed and making the other laugh passionately, are all part of verbal communication. In addition to the meaning expressed by the language itself, the influence of paralinguistic elements on communication is also extremely important, including tone, intonation, voice changes, volume, etc. Since communication is often accompanied by emotional communication, paralinguistic elements can enrich the expressive power of the language itself.

The human ear is a wonderful structure. Because it is close to the brain, it is a driving reactor that can transmit information to the brain quickly and powerfully. Human sexual desire is controlled by the brain.

Humans can distinguish 300,000 to 400,000 different sound vibrations. When sound wave vibrations approach the inner ear of the brain, hearing is produced. The inner ear is composed of a thin membrane, and the outer ear extends into it like a tunnel. This membrane is tightly supported at one end inside the outer ear.

The sound of speech causes this drum-like structure to vibrate, stimulating nerves that carry messages to the brain. The brain in turn transmits the response to the nervous system throughout the body, causing anticipation and desire for sexual satisfaction.

Because our brain and auditory receptors are so close, everything we say affects our actions. Therefore, hearing has a very positive and immediate effect on sexual stimulation.

Women's sexual excitement mainly relies on touch and hearing. During foreplay, in addition to wanting the men to caress and kiss them, they also want to hear sweet words from men. During foreplay, if a man says a few more words of praise such as "I love you", "You have a beautiful body", "You are so sexy", etc., it will undoubtedly have a positive effect on stimulating women's sexual desire and sexual excitement.

Saying explicit words during lovemaking can sometimes make both parties more excited. Communication phrases like "a little more to the left" or "let me get on top of you" can also increase the pleasure of sex because you can express what you want to do.

Women should tell their partners openly what words can arouse their orgasm and ask men to say some provocative words to help them reach orgasm.

Aphrodisiac moaning

When sexual excitement and climax occur, the moans of men and women can also be quite stimulating, especially for men. A 28-year-old man said: "When I have sex with my wife, I hear her screams. The more she screams, the more excited I get, because her screams make me feel that I have done something to make her feel happy."

Another 30-year-old man confessed: "My wife's low moans during orgasm are very tempting and provocative." It can be said that the man's verbal communication during foreplay is crucial to the woman's sexual excitement, and during sexual intercourse, the woman's voice has an aphrodisiac effect on the man's sexual excitement.

The moans made by women during sex are different, but the language of their moans is similar. It comes out naturally without any learning, and it can be called the common language of women in the world.

The reason why women moan during sexual excitement is that their breathing and heart rates significantly speed up, their central nervous system becomes excited, which leads to increased blood pressure and faster aerobic metabolism. At this moment, the breathing rate can reach 40 times/minute, the heart rate increases to 120 times/minute, and some can reach 150 times/minute-160 times/minute.

Due to the decrease in oxygen content in the blood, women will fall into a state of mild hypoxia, and their accelerated breathing disorder will naturally cause them to emit the muffled sounds unique to orgasm. At the same time, due to the increase of "exciting substances" in women's brains (people's understanding of it is still very limited), the brain's inhibition will be lifted, causing women to make sounds that they can't even imagine (called "moaning" in sexology).

Many men and women would be delighted by women's moans, and use the volume of the sound as a criterion for judging the degree of women's sexual excitement. There are very few men who do not like women's moans.

In real life, there are some women who are severely sexually repressed or have more orthodox sexual concepts. They will consciously control their sexual feelings and make no sound during sex. However, it is difficult for these women to achieve true orgasm during sex.