Revealed: What good girls don’t understand about men

I often hear friends around me complain that there is no good man in this world. Maybe it's not that there are no men, it's just that girls see things too absolutely and they don't understand men's secrets.

1. Like to hear about women’s past

Men who are in a relationship will either ask a woman about her past directly or pretend to be casual. Why is this so? Because men have a strong desire for exclusivity. Men have this kind of psychology: when he falls in love with a woman and wants to marry her, he hopes to have her all to himself from now on and in the future, and he also hopes to have her all to himself in the past as well.

Once a woman has a lover, she will care about his present and future, and will not care too much about the past. Men are different. They subconsciously think that they should know everything about their future partners.

2. Like to talk dirty

When several young men get together, especially when a few acquaintances are chatting together, obscene conversations often occur. This cannot be simply regarded as vulgar and low-level; it is a common reflection of male sexual psychology. There are three main reasons for this: to kill boredom and use such boring words to relax the tension of daily life; to increase the harmony and cordiality of the chat atmosphere; when there are women nearby, some people deliberately use obscene language to see how women react when they hear such words.

Among those who engage in obscene talk, people of different ages and experiences have different mentalities. Older and more experienced people often talk about obscene things to show off their knowledge and experience. They enjoy talking about things that should be kept secret, which women find incomprehensible. Younger and less experienced people talk obscenely, mostly out of a strange vanity. They don't want to be considered as inexperienced or unsophisticated, so they act smart and talk a lot. In addition, some people are in a tense state of sexual hunger, and their obscene talk can help relieve tension and vent sexual desire.

3. Like to touch women

Men's psychological characteristics determine their sexual psychological characteristics of liking to touch women. Men are born with a strong desire to "contact the opposite sex." This is consistent with a principle in zoology: "Sexual behavior is only possible when the male exerts his initiative. In a relationship between a man and a woman, the man especially wants to touch the woman because he hopes to show the intimacy between the two parties in a concrete way and hopes to get confirmation in his heart.

Furthermore, due to his physiological and psychological factors, he wants to reach the second and third steps through the first step. As a woman in Chekhov's The Cherry Orchard says, "If you kiss the hand, you will definitely kiss the shoulder next, kiss the shoulder."

4. Like to see naked women

Men are easily teased by nude photos and striptease. This is because women are tactile and men are visual. The strength of a man's sexual consciousness in liking to see naked women is determined by the individual's inherent eroticism and the difficulty of approaching the object. That is to say, the more covered a woman's body parts are, the more stimulating it is to men psychologically.

This is because his imagination is stimulated, making him think of the next step, and at the same time making him imagine that he is the one who uncovers the last part himself, making the feeling even stronger. Therefore, compared with frivolous women, shy women are more stimulating to men. In fact, not only men like to see naked women, but women also have the potential to like to see naked men, but it's not as strong and active as men.

5. Like to look at women

There is such a phenomenon in life: a man has just said goodbye to his girlfriend affectionately, and when he sees another beautiful woman, he will sincerely admire her. This psychological phenomenon of men is like a butterfly flying from one flower to another. Even if it loves one, it will inevitably turn its eyes to another.