Why do they want sex to be over quickly?

In my opinion, the root cause of modern people's crappy sex is that the sex scenes are too short. The meal lasted less than twenty minutes, which was certainly not enough for a woman to fully enjoy the pleasure. A woman's physiological structure has determined that sex that is completed within twenty minutes cannot make her feel comfortable.

Why is the sex time so short? The reason should be found in men. I'm not saying that every man just wants a quick fix. But men do have the instinct to "ejaculate as soon as possible", which I call ejaculation supremacy; once this instinct is indulged, sex will only last twenty minutes.

In fact, most women hope that their love can last longer. Unfortunately, the actual situation is not as satisfactory as expected. ?

Indeed, when I tell my female friends that my average sex time is two hours, almost everyone shows a surprised expression - "Wow! That's too long." But the next question is always the same: "What do you do during this time?" Although I have been telling them to caress each other and enjoy the comfort of seduction, their reactions are still: "Don't your mouths get tired?" "It hurts down there." "What can be done for two hours? Who can stand doing it for so long?"

I know that when they talk about "two hours", the picture in their minds is that of "blowing the trumpet" all the time and enduring the painful piston movement. When it comes to caressing men, they will instinctively think of oral sex, and when they hear about making love, they will only instinctively think of violent penetration. This is obviously not comfortable for them, so they naturally cannot understand the phrase "caressing each other and enjoying the enchanting comfort".

The pleasure that women's erogenous zones experience from skin stimulation is not the same, with the most obvious difference being the intensity of the pleasure. Gently caressing every erogenous zone on a woman's body and appreciating the different changes in her expressions can be said to be the most delicious taste of sex. Every woman has countless erogenous zones on her body. Being able to stimulate their sexual potential is undoubtedly many times more interesting than watching a movie or visiting an amusement park. How can just two hours be enough? As long as you really get into the mood, two hours will pass in the blink of an eye.

Unfortunately, many women do not know what "real comfort" is and cannot grasp that wonderful feeling like a fairyland. Indeed, true sexual pleasure can only be known by experiencing it yourself, so we cannot simply blame them. But I often feel it’s a pity that when communicating with them, you can almost always feel the feeling of “giving up”.

To them, it seems that there is only one purpose of having sex, which is to make men comfortable. To put it more extremely, they are just tools. For such a bedtime pleasure, who wouldn't want it to be "over soon"?

Both men and women were originally lustful animals, but now they have been alienated into a cold picture, in which there are only lustful men, while women watch coldly from the side. Isn't this true for all men and women in the world?

※What is even more embarrassing for men is that women want sex to end as soon as possible. Faced with this very unfortunate and common social situation, men should really listen to women's voices and then ask themselves, what have they done wrong?

"I used to try to communicate with him and tell him what kind of stimulation would excite me the most, but he seemed very reluctant and didn't care at all, so I gave up. Now, I often pretend to orgasm during vaginal intercourse, hoping that his orgasm will come soon. I don't have any other thoughts, I just think that this way, I can sleep well."

"Men use their penises as guns, riding you for thousands of miles, but they only care about their own feelings and allow themselves to be happy. They are strong and much heavier than women. When I can't bear this huge hairy body colliding with me, I will quickly pretend to orgasm."

"If I find that I have made a mistake during intercourse, for example, I feel that I do not love this man, I will tighten my vagina four or five times, and then start to moan as if I have reached orgasm, so that the other person can ejaculate quickly and end this wrong intercourse."

※It is necessary to mention "Combining Yin and Yang" again. This book focuses on the union of yin and yang, that is, sexual intercourse between men and women, and the content on sexual techniques is very concentrated and prominent. : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : : :

The general meaning of this passage is that when a man and a woman have sexual intercourse, they should start by massaging the Wanyanggu point and the Wanbone point on the hand, then massage the elbows, to the armpits, up through the acromion and the base of the arm, to the neck. Then massage the Chengguang point on the neck, massage around the neck, go down to the Quepen point, through the Ruzhong point, across the chest cavity, to between the Qugu and Henggu, caress the vulva, touch the clitoris, attract the essence of heaven to wake up the brain and refresh the mind, you can live a long and healthy life and coexist with heaven and earth. The Jiao tendons are the intersection meridians in the vulva, that is, the clitoris. If you massage them from bottom to top, women will feel relaxed all over, in a good mood, and have a sense of itchy pleasure. Even if you don't have intercourse, you can still hug, kiss and play around. There are certain principles and methods for playing: first, when the essence rises and the face becomes hot, you should open your mouth and exhale slowly; second, when the woman's nipples are erect and her nose is sweating, you should hug her gently; third, when the tongue coating is sweet and light and the tongue surface is smooth, you should slowly obey each other; fourth, when the vaginal fluid flows and moistens the thighs, you should move slowly; fifth, when the woman keeps swallowing the saliva in her mouth, you should shake her gently. This is how a woman’s five desires manifest themselves. After these five manifestations, you can officially have sexual intercourse. The penis should be inserted upward without going deep into the vagina in order to gather the essence. After the essence is gathered, the penis should be inserted deeply and tilted upward to dissipate the heat generated during sexual intercourse. Repeat this process, thrusting up and down, and the woman will be very satisfied when she reaches orgasm. Then thrust in and out ten times, imitating the movements of ten animals, varying the up and down, left and right, fast and slow, amount and depth of intercourse. As sexual intercourse is coming to an end, the essence and energy flow to the vagina. Then observe the other person's reactions to the eight movements during sexual intercourse, listen carefully to the five breathing sounds made by the woman, and understand the characteristics of her reaction to ten rounds of sexual intercourse without ejaculation.

It is obvious that the ancients were very particular about the art of sex: men and women caressed, played, kissed and hugged each other before sex to strengthen their feelings and please their spirits; during intercourse, they did not rush forward recklessly, but changed various positions, postures and strengths to concentrate their energy and have great fun; after-sex was not neglected either, so that sex could reach a perfect ending. If we can calm down our impetuous bodies and minds today, and men can act like real men, make love, and seek pleasure, which woman would want sex to end as soon as possible?