Be a strong girl, I will watch it again when I am sad

I am a girl. I don’t have a stunning appearance, a prominent family background, or overwhelming power. I am just an ordinary woman living in the secular world.

I have to learn to face the cruel world alone and be strong.

I can allow myself to fall for a while, but I cannot sink from then on. I still have dreams, and tomorrow will always come.

Don’t care too much about what you have, don’t pursue something deliberately, like fallen leaves returning to their roots, what belongs to me will always come back to me.

When I am sad and upset, I stay alone and quiet, not shedding tears in front of anyone. I cannot forgive my cowardice.

Be a little more extravagant and leave a smile to everyone, even if there is sadness behind it.

Never explain yourself at any time, even if it is a misunderstanding. It's enough for you to understand it yourself. There's no need to ask indifferent people to understand you.

When facing someone who has hurt you, give him a smile and then turn around and leave. Don’t hate him, because it’s too tiring. Don’t love him either, because he is not worth it.

When facing someone who likes me, I will be nice to him. Because everyone's efforts should be rewarded.

I won’t blame the person who betrayed me. Maybe he really had his own difficulties, but I won’t listen to his explanation. We have reached the next stop.

Anyone who leaves me and then returns, I will ignore. Because you can no longer give me a complete heart.

I will let go of someone who cannot be saved. I cannot give him the happiness he wants, but at least I can fulfill his pursuit.

Don’t deliberately decorate yourself, because that is for others to see, but people who really care about me won’t care about these things.

You don’t have to say it out loud if you like someone. It’s enough to care about him, worry about him and love him.

When I fall and no one helps me up, I just get up by myself. When I’m sad and no one comforts me, I tell myself to be strong. When I cry and no one cares for me, I just wipe my tears by myself.

You can forgive, you can not care, you can give up, you can forget, but you cannot stop loving yourself and live with pride.

I can work hard and give for someone, but I won't change. If he really cares about me, he will tolerate me.

No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, then you will have no complaints.

When facing difficulties, don't be pessimistic and cynical.

Don’t be afraid to start over again at any time in your life. Every seemingly low starting point is the only way to reach a higher peak.

Make yourself calmer, more open-minded, and more tolerant of the mistakes around you. Everyone has his own difficulties, so why force others?

As a girl, you must first strive for financial independence, and then you are qualified to talk about what to strive for. From 15 to 25 years old, strive for opportunities to study and travel. From 25 to 35, work hard, study actively, organize a family, start saving, be lively and optimistic, and work tirelessly... These hands may be small, but they belong to me. I will make achievements and enjoy the results. I don’t know how happy I am...

Bad things happen all the time, but there are still many ways to solve the problems. Never forget to study and learn, and broaden your horizons. All the troubles in life will follow us forever, no more and no less, but knowledge and cultivation can make a person more rational and calm in analyzing and dealing with these problems.

The things you lose never really belonged to you, so there is no need to regret. Be more relaxed. No matter what mistakes you make in life, they are all your own fault, not others'. Learn from your mistakes, improve yourself, and never put the blame on others, lest you lose the opportunity to learn from your mistakes.

Romance is a kind of self-cultivation and a style of life. No matter whether you are married or not, or what age you are, you should always maintain a girlish romantic sentiment.

Love is beautiful, but life is always longer than love, and life requires wisdom. Be optimistic, sunny, and think positively about everything.

Our nostalgia for a city is actually just nostalgia for the people and things there, and more importantly, for the best years of our lives that were deposited in that city. No matter where you are, life has its ups and downs. There is no need to envy others and add to your own troubles.

There is a French proverb: With your lover by your side, everywhere is heaven. Happiness does not come from getting more, but from caring less. If you strive hard to pursue what you don’t have and don’t know how to cherish what you have, the result will only be in vain and hurt your life.

There is a saying in "Zhuangzi" that summer insects cannot talk about ice, which means that no matter how you talk to summer insects about winter ice and snow, they will not understand. Similarly, when we always blame others for not being able to understand us, please calm down. Everyone has their own limitations in thinking. Different thinking makes it difficult to reach a consensus. Therefore, we are all summer insects in each other's eyes.

Have more patience, confidence and persistence in life. Don't always give up halfway.

Work hard for your dreams, and looking back, you will find that those hardships have become the wealth of your life. The future is in your hands.

Gains and losses are what life is all about. Don’t be resentful. The worst thing to do in life is to complain endlessly and make yourself disliked by others. Loving yourself is like the rising sun.

Life is short, and the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. Why bother to prove anything to someone who is not worthy? Live a better life for yourself...

Girls should be strong, strong for themselves!

Girls should work hard, work hard for the future! The joy of life has to be found by yourself, and no one is obligated to do anything for you or to please you.