Four reasons why women want to break up

If you spend more time with your lover, some things that you didn't care about before will suddenly become very important to you. Sometimes I even have thoughts like “Why do I like this guy?” and feel a strong sense of disobedience. On May 4, the Japanese website Mynavi published an article listing the boyfriend behaviors that make working women want to break up. Let's take a look!

1. Often alone

Some netizens said, "He often acts alone like a wolf", "He prioritizes his own interests and leaves me aside", and "It would be weird if he kept chatting with other women."

Once the passion of love fades, you will pay more attention to your own ideas and cherish your own time, and you may even not feel the important existence of your lover for a period of time. If you encounter this situation, calm yourself down and look for the other person's strengths!

2. Narrow-mindedness

"When I wanted to drink the drink he bought, he refused to give it to me and told me to buy it myself", "He looked angry at me", "He borrowed money from his brother to go on a date with me. If that's the case, I hope he doesn't say it."

If the relationship isn't going too far, this might be enough to lead to a breakup. The more you understand the other person's personality, the more you may doubt the relationship.

3. Lack of basic etiquette

"I wanted to break up with you because you littered," "When I wanted to see the contents of the product, I just opened the package. I wondered if it could be opened. So I broke up with you right away."

Although it is an impolite behavior, they still want to forgive it! They actually hope that the other party can correct it immediately after pointing out the problem.

4. Lack of confidence in one’s words and actions

"I saw him looking around and I had no idea what he was doing", "He stepped aside when he heard someone else's bicycle bell, he's too weak", "He's too childish, he wanted to walk up the escalator in the opposite direction."

Your boyfriend's lack of masculinity or naivety cannot be changed by just talking to him, so it is best to consider his personality and learn to accept it.