7 types of couple combinations that are prone to divorce

Couples whose personalities and characters are too similar

Usually, when we are looking for a partner, we tend to look for someone who is on the same path as us and of the same type as us. Birds of a feather flock together. For people who are on the same path, consistency of character and personality is a basic element. Only when your personalities and characters are similar can you get into the state quickly. This is an advantage in love, but not necessarily in marriage, and may even become a disadvantage. Couples whose personalities and characters are too similar are most likely to feel bored after being together for a long time. If one spouse has the same ideas as the other, it is not conducive to discovering problems and improving oneself. It also makes one feel that the other spouse is one's own shadow, which is really not a good thing. The personalities of a couple may complement each other, or at least they should have considerable differences. Both of them have strong personalities, so they will definitely not give in to each other; both of them are taciturn, so they won't speak out after a quarrel, and it's not easy for them to reconcile. Instead, they keep it in their hearts, which accumulates conflicts and lays the seeds for disaster. Small conflicts should be resolved in normal times and not accumulated. Couples whose personalities and characters are too similar are the combination most likely to feel lack of applause and also the one most likely to accumulate conflicts.

Couples working in the same department

It’s not to say that you shouldn’t marry a colleague, but the fact is that colleagues are not the best couple combination. But colleagues are a group that is prone to love, because feelings grow over time. Since they are in love, of course there is no need to not get married just because they are colleagues, but they have to think about the problems they may face in the future. When in love, both parties stick very close to each other, go to work and go home together, which makes it convenient to date and saves a lot of costs. However, marriage is a lifelong thing. Living and working together for many years will sooner or later make you feel bored, and it seems that you have no personal space at all. When a couple returns home, they have nothing to talk about. You know it and I know it too. Both husband and wife lack a sense of mystery and admiration for each other's profession.

A model couple who respect each other and never quarrel

It is certainly not a good thing for couples to quarrel, but the differences between people are destined to cause conflicts between people. There are no two people in the world who have no conflicts, it's just the degree of conflict. Of course, quarrels also have differences in severity, but there are no couples who don't quarrel. Quarreling is a normal thing in marriage life. The key is not to quarrel every day and not to have too many big quarrels. Minor quarrels are actually a kind of spice in the dull marriage life. So, in my opinion, the so-called model couple who never quarrel and respect each other do not exist. Even if there are such couples, I think they only do it for outsiders to see, and they may be very depressed themselves. Husband and wife should respect each other, but there is no need to be overly polite to each other. Think about it, if there are so many etiquettes at home and they treat each other like guests, wouldn’t it be frustrating? Home is a place to relax.

Couples who got married without any previous dating history

This has two meanings. One is that both parties or one of them has never dated any other opposite sex before getting married. The other is that the couple's relationship time is too short or even they get married without any relationship at all. The former situation is generally not a big problem, but human hearts are always strange. There is always a picky mentality in their subconscious mind, and emotions can only mature through experience. In the old days, there was no problem for couples who had never been in love, but it is different in this era full of temptations. They may find the so-called better one after marriage, and because they have never experienced it, they may really think that the later one is better, and their thinking will become childish. When a couple gets married after dating for too short a time, it is mostly because of utilitarianism, and they will certainly not understand each other very deeply. The result of hastily entering into marriage will inevitably lead to a hasty end to the marriage in the future.

Couples who have been dating for too long

This seems to make sense. Logically speaking, a long relationship is a good thing, as it allows the two to understand each other well enough, but this is not always the case. Love is love, it cannot be too short nor too long, because the understanding between people is endless. It is impossible to wait until you know each other completely before getting married. If you do that, you will never get married in your entire life. Relationships have their ups and downs, this is a rule. Dating for too long is actually just moving a part of married life forward to the time when you were dating, which may result in the so-called seven-year itch as soon as you get married. There is no freshness and passion when you just get married, which makes people feel that the marriage is boring. It is obviously not good to have too high expectations of marriage, but it is equally bad to have no expectations of marriage.

Couples with very different educational backgrounds

We usually say that couples should be well matched. I actually dislike the so-called "well matched", but thinking about it from another perspective, well matched can also be understood as the degree of compatibility between two people, such as educational background and academic qualifications. This is not discrimination, but a reality, and I don't look down on ignorant people. Of course, it is not necessary for a couple to have the same or even equal educational background, but at least the difference should not be too great. For example, a person with a college degree and a person with only an elementary school degree may be a possible combination, but because they are completely unable to communicate, such a marriage will most likely not last long. But please note that the so-called academic qualifications I am talking about here are just a way of saying it. If a person with only a junior high school education, through self-study, actually has a high school or even higher level of knowledge, we cannot say that he still has a junior high school education. So we have to look at the actual level of educational knowledge, and not just the professional level. Although some people have graduated from university, their cultural level in some aspects may not be as good as that of a junior high school graduate, such as history, geography, or cultural common sense.

Couples who live apart or both work from home

For couples who live apart for long periods of time and rarely see each other, their feelings for each other are likely to fade due to lack of communication, and they are also more likely to have problems with third parties interfering. Their probability of divorce will be higher. This is obvious and needs no further explanation. But everything has two extremes. When we leave one extreme, we should think about not going to the other extreme. It is not good for a couple to live apart for a long time, but it is also not good for a couple to be too close. For example, if both husband and wife are freelancers and work from home, they may be speechless when they face each other every day. If they are too far away, they want to communicate but cannot, and if they are too close and too close, they do not want to communicate at all. Sometimes it is even more terrible than living apart. Therefore, couples in this situation should take the initiative to learn how to adjust. It is best for one of the couple to go out and start a business. Why should both husband and wife start a business at home?