Women's sexual privacy

AMY: The first time I had bad luck was during my sixth grade physical education class. A boy whispered to me, “Your pants are dirty!” I patted my butt and played games with my classmates until the get out of class was over. When I went to the WC during break, I found my underwear was covered in blood! It really scared me. Thinking about facing such a "life and death" catastrophe every month, I felt that being a girl was really troublesome.

AMY: I met a boy I liked when I was a freshman in college. I felt that he was the one I was looking for in my life. Although I had been in a relationship before, this time felt completely different from the last time. So during the summer vacation of my sophomore year, we went to the beach alone, and it was the most wonderful 7 days I have ever experienced to this day. We flew to Hainan. We had very limited money, so we stayed by the sea for the last two days and slept in a tent we brought with us.

On the last night, we walked a long way along the coastline, stopping when we got tired. Someone was setting off fireworks on the seashore in the distance, making the sky sparkle brightly. Accompanied by the sea tide, the fireworks, the sea breeze, and the salty taste, I gave him my first time. We were both very scared at the time because it was each other's first time, and we were testing each other and were clumsy.

AMY: After work, I and he

We lived together and looked forward to a beautiful future until one day I found out I was pregnant. He was startled and at a loss like a child. So, I secretly went to the hospital to have an abortion. Tears accompanied me throughout the entire operation, not because of the pain, but because of the heartbreak. He was so frightened that he didn't know what to do. After returning from the hospital, he told us that we must be careful next time, totally disregarding my sad and desolate mood at the time. A month later, I cooked him a sumptuous dinner, left a note on the table, packed up my things and left him. Acknowledging everything is the most useful thing this relationship has given me.

Secret words from close friends:

●I always feel that girls are at a disadvantage in this kind of issue. Not to mention the physical exhaustion, the mental trauma is even more difficult to heal. If it were me, I wouldn't have the courage to leave him. After all, he didn't do anything big wrong. Men need to be trained and cultivated. Haha, I think AMY’s move is not worth the cost, but I admire her very much.

● AMY is a girl with a strong personality. I think she has the right to choose her own life and even more the right to choose a man.

● In this issue, there is no question of who is taking advantage of whom between girls and boys. If they love each other, they can be together. If they feel they can't adapt to each other, they can break up. It's normal.

Friends VS Lovers VS Enemies

Character: Kind-hearted Grace

Privacy disclosure location: In my own living room

Privacy disclosure method: A friend asked me to reveal my secret while watching a movie

Privacy disclosure time: Evening

Privacy disclosure object: Two childhood friends

GRACE: My good friend Xiaolan’s boyfriend Awei is the most handsome boy on the basketball court. I didn't dare tell her that I had been secretly in love with Wei for a year. For the next year, I was torn between whether to confess or remain silent. Finally, at the graduation party, after dancing together, I decided to tell him my feelings. I didn’t expect the subsequent turmoil: Awei and Xiaolan broke up, and it was said that Awei had always liked me. I was transferred to another dormitory, and Xiaolan is currently in the process of going abroad. Without friendship, love is not as sweet as imagined.

Xiao Lan left a line of words in my graduation message book: Love has no priority, I pursue my happiness and hope you can understand, and I also wish you the ultimate happiness!

I cried.

Secret words from close friends:

●On one side are friends, on the other side is love, GRACE’s love path must be very bumpy, haha. It’s really annoying to face this kind of choice, but everyone knows that you can’t have your cake and eat it too, so girls will eventually choose love. Some people say that this is a selfish behavior, but I don’t think so. I think it is a manifestation of self-confidence. Besides, Grace went through a year of painful suffering before she bravely told him her feelings, which shows that Grace had thought it over carefully.

●Falling in love with a friend’s boyfriend. This kind of story has happened to me many times. I think it’s better not to have such a fickle boy. Imagine if another girl expresses her love to him after he is with GRACE? Wouldn’t GRACE still be the victim in the end? Such a man is unreliable. To put it bluntly, he is fickle. A smart woman should not be so infatuated with such a man. No matter how handsome he is, she should let him know that not all girls in the world belong to him alone. His charm should be based on sincerity. Love is not a piece of clothing that can be changed at will.

●I think the only friendship between people of the same sex in this world is the most valuable, because I always believe that there is no friendship between opposite sexes, and there must be some romantic color. So what girls should cherish most is the friendship between people of the same sex, because only women understand women best, and friends are more intimate than lovers in most cases. I think it's not worth it for Grace to lose her best friend because of Wei.

DOUBLE Emotions of Parents

YIYO is a cheerful girl and is in her fourth year of college. Her two parents now have their own babies and YIYO often visits them. This is her secret. Until one day, when we talked about our parents, I realized that she had experienced many things that I could not imagine...

Character: Strong Yiyo

Privacy disclosure location: YIYO home

Private disclosure method: Chatting with friends on the phone

Privacy disclosure time: late at night

Privacy disclosure object: me

YIYO: My dad is currently going through the process with my new mom.

Divorce procedures, I think this is nothing. If you feel happy together, continue living together. If you are not happy, separate. It's better than two people living awkwardly for the rest of their lives and going to the grave with regrets. It may be my "credit" that they broke up.

During the New Year, I missed my dad, so I flew to Shanghai to see them without telling them in advance. When I got home, the door was not locked. I wanted to give my father a surprise, so I tiptoed to their bedroom.

Through the crack in the door, I saw the new mother and a strange man lying naked on the bed. It turned out that the new mother was having an affair! I opened the door generously, and the new mother ordered me to leave the room quickly. I asked her, what are you afraid of? Are you not happy with your father? If you are not happy, then you should not live together! Then I left the New Year gift I brought for my father and took the afternoon flight back to Beijing.

I didn't tell anyone about this. A few days later, my father called me and told me that he was getting a divorce. I said "hmm" and hung up the phone. At that time, I really felt that the relationship between men and women was so fragile, and there were so many temptations outside of marriage. A marriage contract was actually just a piece of paper. Some of my classmates have divorced parents. They all come to me and cry their hearts out. I really don’t understand. If two people are not happy, should they be tied together till death?

My family is very special. I have two fathers and two mothers. I always mention my family to my boyfriend. He looks scared and says that I have experienced so many family changes at such a young age. I told him that I didn't think I was miserable or unfortunate, but I just hoped that the family I would form in the future would be more stable and not have to change members all the time. This idea scared my boyfriend when I expressed it. He was afraid that I would get used to the feeling of changing members and replace him one day.

I am full of expectations for the future. I really want to see whether my family will be as turbulent in the future.

Secret words from close friends:

●I think children from divorced families mature precociously, and YIYO is one of them. It's rare that she can take things so lightly, but I'm worried that she might be afraid of love and marriage because of her parents' affairs. It seems that her boyfriend has a lot to do and needs to take better care of her.