Newlyweds will have a happy future if they learn two skills

Sex life is an important aspect of married life. A harmonious sex life can not only satisfy the sexual desires of both parties, but also make each other physically and mentally healthy.

1. Harmonious Sexual Life

In order to have a harmonious sex life, both husband and wife should understand basic sexual knowledge, especially the sexual functions of men and women.

normal differences. Otherwise, the couple will not be able to cooperate with each other. In summary, there are some differences between male and female sexual functions:

1. Men have stronger and more vigorous sexual desire, and can be sexually excited at any time; women's sexual desire is relatively weak, and sexual excitement is related to the menstrual cycle (generally, sexual desire is higher before and after ovulation and before menstruation). There are a few women who have weak or even no sexual desire before marriage, and their sexual desire gradually increases during their sexual life after marriage.

2. Male sexual impulse occurs faster, reaches climax quickly, and sexual desire subsides faster. Generally speaking, it takes about 2 to 6 minutes (or 3 to 15 minutes) for a normal man to ejaculate from the beginning of sexual intercourse. Female sexual impulse occurs more slowly, usually taking 10-30 minutes (or 5-15 minutes) to reach climax, the climax lasts longer, and sexual desire subsides more slowly.

3. Men's sexual desire tends to be concentrated on their sexual organs, and their desire for sexual intercourse is very strong; women's sexual desire is more extensive and complex, including talking, laughing, tenderness, caressing, etc., and they will only desire sexual intercourse after reaching a certain level of excitement. The most ideal sexual life is for both parties to reach orgasm at the same time or for the woman to reach orgasm first and then the man to ejaculate. After the woman reaches orgasm, it does not affect the continuation of sexual intercourse; moreover, unlike men, women can reach orgasm again in a short period of time (the degree of sexual pleasure varies from person to person. For the same person, the degree of pleasure each time of sexual intercourse is also different).

2. Frequency of sexual intercourse

How much sexual intercourse is appropriate is a difficult question to answer. The strength of sexual desire varies from person to person, and even the same person is affected by many factors such as age, physique, personality, occupation, climate, environment, and emotions. Therefore, the frequency of sexual intercourse cannot be determined mechanically, but should be appropriately adjusted according to the specific circumstances of both parties. During the honeymoon period, sexual desire is stronger and sexual intercourse is more frequent. In the first few months after marriage, it is usually 2 to 3 times a week. As age increases, it will gradually decrease to once every 1 to 2 weeks. People with poor health may do it less frequently. When couples reunite after a long separation, they often have sexual intercourse more frequently. This is human nature, but it should also be practiced in moderation.

Whether the sexual life is moderate can be judged by the feeling the next day. If both parties do not feel tired, but feel full of energy and work vigorously, this indicates that the sex life is moderate. If you experience symptoms such as loss of energy, heavy head, light feet, decreased appetite, dizziness, and palpitations, it means you are overdoing it and you should exercise moderation. There are a few couples with strong sexual desire who have frequent sexual intercourse and both parties still feel refreshed and energetic, which should be considered appropriate.