Will it hurt or bleed the first time?

For girls who lack sexual experience, if they are about to have their first time, they will inevitably be very nervous and have many questions. For example, will it hurt and will there be bleeding the first time? We all know that before a girl loses her virginity, her private parts are protected by the hymen, so we often hear that there will be bleeding when the hymen is broken for the first time. So, does every girl feel pain and bleed the first time?

Will it hurt the first time?

First of all, why do women feel pain during their first night of sexual intercourse? Of course, we need to understand that virgins are afraid of pain during their first sexual intercourse, and this is of course a very common sexual problem. There are many reasons for this, such as bacterial infection, drug stimulation, object allergy, and even excessive vaginal cleaning. However, there are two common underlying factors that contribute to dyspareunia. That is vaginal dryness and vaginal tightness. The essence of sexual intercourse is physical friction. Our skin often becomes uncomfortable when it rubs without lubrication. If it is the epidermis of the esophagus, gastroscopy will be extremely uncomfortable. Even if you say. Many people have another mythical misunderstanding. They believe that as long as there is friction during sexual intercourse there will be pleasure. Little do they know that what they often get is only discomfort or even pain. After all, the vulva and vagina are very tender.

Secondly, because virgins lack sexual intercourse skills, their vaginal dryness often directly leads to pain during sexual intercourse. Vaginal dryness means insufficient or no lubrication. This condition can occur when there is no sexual arousal or when stimulation is insufficient. At the same time, psychological tension can also lead to insufficient lubrication secretion. Coincidentally, these are the problems that often arise on the first night. Then, the hymen itself is a friction barrier. The problem was exacerbated. Furthermore, vaginal tension is also a serious problem. It may be severe enough to cause vaginismus. Vaginismus can make sexual intercourse impossible. Think about an injection; when we are forced to undergo a painful insertion, it in itself exaggerates the pain. So, the myth of suffering exacerbates the suffering.

Finally, virgins experience pain during their first night, and this may all be attributed to the rupture of the hymen due to the popular concept in our society. In fact, the hymen is rich in blood vessels but has only a few nerves. When it ruptures, it does not cause any noticeable pain. Some types of hymen rupture are almost painless. What's more, the pain will be reduced if it is well lubricated. Indeed, the vaginal walls are close together before first intercourse. Penile insertion may cause a burning sensation, or even stinging. However, the stinging pain of an ant bite is completely different from the legendary pain of childbirth. It is possible that the hymen may cause severe pain in certain situations, or even prevent sexual intercourse. However, generally speaking it does not constitute "fear of pain".

Do women bleed the first time?

Generally speaking, there will be bleeding during the first time, but there are also special cases. Some girls have never had a boyfriend, but they did not bleed during the first time because their hymen was torn during previous sports activities or for other reasons. Moreover, the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person. It can be thin, thick, loose, tight, large or small, and its shapes are also different. Some may rupture due to strenuous exercise, cycling, falls, trauma, menstrual tampon placement, masturbation, etc. In some women, the hymen has retracted on its own due to their age. Some are not very obvious at birth: some hymens are very stretchable and remain intact despite multiple sexual intercourses.

Due to the different elasticity and toughness of the hymen, when the penis is inserted, the hymen is ruptured by external force, causing pain and bleeding, but the pain and bleeding situations are different for each person. According to the survey, about 37% of people feel dull pain, 30% have severe pain, and 12% feel no pain. Some women's hymen is very elastic and tough, and it will not break even if the penis is inserted. This is medically called a permissive hymen.

The hymen is not completely closed. There is a hole in the middle for menstrual blood to flow out. Not every virgin will bleed or feel pain during first sexual intercourse. According to modern medical evidence, 23% of women will not bleed during their first time.