No sex life for one year after giving birth

Not only does childbirth cause a woman's body to suffer great loss of qi and blood and suffer great pain, but some women will also experience sexual apathy after giving birth. Sexual indifference can seriously affect the normal relationship between husband and wife, because an important factor in maintaining a husband and wife relationship is the harmony of sexual life. But what should some women do when they find that they have not had sex for a year after giving birth?

It could be postpartum frigidity. Generally speaking, it is normal to refuse sexual intercourse within three months after delivery, because the mother's body is in a state of repair. However, if the woman is still in a state of refusing or averse to sexual life after three months or even a year, it is considered sexual frigidity.

The reasons for postpartum sexual indifference of new mothers are as follows:

1: I feel that my birth canal has been a torment, becoming loose and fragile, and I need a good rest because of the episiotomy.

2: Subconsciously, they believe that sex made them pregnant, and that pregnancy and childbirth will cause them suffering, so they refuse sex afterwards.

3. Too tired, exhausted, and not in the mood

3: Your husband doesn’t care enough about you, and refusing to have sex with you is a punishment for him.

4: Disease or other

Some new mothers said that they recovered quickly after giving birth and wanted to have sex, but the strange thing is that their husbands never mentioned it and they haven’t had sex for more than half a year after giving birth…

Maybe many people don't understand why new fathers have "sexual indifference"? Let me help you analyze it:

1: New dads juggle work and parenting, and are too tired to lift

2. My wife’s birth canal was damaged during childbirth, and asking for sex will make her suffer

3: Seeing that his wife is too hard to raise children, he can’t bear to ask for sex

4. After being rejected by your wife once, you don’t have the courage to ask again

5: Really no sexual interest, or other

Disadvantages of long-term sex life

Regardless of whether it is for men or women, long-term lack of sexual life will have an impact on physical and mental health.

For men, if they do not have sex for a long time, they will satisfy their needs through erotic dreams, nocturnal emissions, etc. If you find that your husband is in a hurry to change his underwear or take a shower in the morning, then nine out of ten times he is having nocturnal emissions. (Don't ask me how I know)

For women, there is no such function. Due to the lack of sexual life for a long time, hormones will accumulate in the body. When they accumulate to a certain amount, they will affect the human nervous system and cause symptoms such as irritability, sweating, and insomnia.

Women's menstruation is closely related to the secretion of sex hormones. If there is no sexual life for a long time, the secretion of female sex hormones will decrease, which will affect women's menstrual period and make them prone to dysmenorrhea during menstruation. In addition, it may also lead to abnormal conditions such as abnormal menstrual blood volume, irregular menstruation, and prolonged menstruation.

If you do not have sex for a long time, the vagina will not be sufficiently stimulated, which will reduce the secretion of mucus and thus reduce its self-cleaning ability. Bacteria will easily multiply in the vagina, causing vaginitis, and may further cause gynecological inflammations such as pelvic inflammatory disease and cervicitis.

Some functions of the body will improve if used and will decline if not used, so if you don’t have sex for a long time, some “parts” in your body will rust!

Therefore, if the postpartum woman recovers well, she can try to have sex. Maybe she will not feel much pleasure or even feel uncomfortable at the beginning, but please believe that it will get better slowly. After all, sex is also an indispensable part of the intimate relationship between husband and wife. If the husband is "sexually cold", the new mother can take the initiative to tease him. You are the master of your sexual happiness!