A guide to sex for couples

Normal couples should maintain regular sexual habits so as to maintain a normal and harmonious relationship between them. For couples, sex is an important way to exchange feelings, so the quality of sex also has an impact on the relationship between couples. And when couples are having sex, both men and women should pay attention to certain communication skills. The following article is a guide to couples' sex life.

Communication skills for couples in sex life

1. Don’t express your opinions about sex in bed

It is best to avoid making various opinions before and after sex. You can choose to communicate with your husband in a more private and relaxed place, such as at home when you are alone, or in a restaurant with a private space. You can honestly express your needs or suggestions for sex life.

2. Plan before you talk

If you casually point out the other person's shortcomings in their sex life, it will easily cause resistance. Therefore, you should organize your thoughts before communicating and put forward your ideas in a tactful manner.

3. Recall the good old days

When two people are reminiscing about the sweet times in the past, they often naturally talk about sex. You can talk more about your intimate actions in the past to help stimulate sexual desire.

4. Don’t blame the other person too much

Be careful about how you express your dissatisfaction with your sex life and don't just blame the other person. Excessive blame can easily lead to counterproductive effects and even affect the harmony of the relationship between husband and wife, further reducing the quality of your sex life.

5. Say “I” more often

Mention "I" more often during conversations and express your needs more often. For example, if you want more caressing during sex, you can frankly tell your husband, "I want more caressing and hugging."