Some sex tips for having sex with a virgin

A virgin’s first time, accompanied by the rupture of the hymen and vaginal pain, is unforgettable both physically and psychologically. So for men, this is a test of whether you are a good husband or a good boyfriend.

First of all, psychologically, you have to give her enough comfort. Love her and comfort her. Tell her this is a necessary step to becoming a real woman. If she says no, don't force it. Don't do the stupid thing of "raping" her. Not only does this hurt her, but you also get no pleasure from it, only venting.

So when she shyly agrees, what sex position do you use? Actually, there is no fixed rule. However, from the perspective of caring for women (because the pain of puncturing the hymen is inevitable), the following method is recommended: the woman lies on her back on the edge of the bed with her legs raised high. The man stands between the woman's legs under the bed. This method of lovemaking has the following advantages: The penis can pierce the hymen with minimal force.

Stop here for the first time and don’t do it violently anymore. Girls only feel pain. Wait until next time. You can look at Malthus for this. In Garcia's "Love in the Time of Cholera", the hero, on his wedding night, let his wife admire his penis all night without having sex in order to eliminate her fear of sex.

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Very experienced lovers may also use this method when having sex. This method also has an advantage: it is easier for men to exert force. This posture can also be appropriately varied, for example: putting the woman's legs on the man's shoulders; or the man holding the woman's legs with his arms; this way the part of the vagina that the penis stimulates changes, so the feeling is also different.

It is also particularly emphasized that in this way men can clearly see their penis entering and exiting the vagina, which feels really wonderful. In order to let women also feel this kind of pleasure, you can let them hold a mirror and place it on the side of their body to watch, which is very helpful for women to reach orgasm.