Three ways for a woman to stop her husband from cheating

The husband had the idea of ​​cheating three times and made corresponding preparations, but his smart wife discovered it in time and nipped it in the bud. Until now, he still doesn't know where he went wrong. Men are animals with lower bodies. Once they have money, they are prone to evil thoughts and do not need too many reasons to cheat. If a woman wants to help a cheating man come back in time, she needs to understand the man's nature and be good at catching clues of his cheating.

Although Lao Chen is only the boss of a small joint-stock construction company, he is well-known in the industry. Lao Chen’s fame does not come from the size of his business, but from his unique mouth. Lao Chen is a fashion icon in the industry. Not only does he pursue fashion in his dressing style, he is also very advanced in relationships between men and women. Especially when talking about his private life, he is extremely excited. Not only does he focus on talking about things below the belt, but he also doesn't give people any excuses to make fun of him.

Before moving to the city, Lao Chen worked as a bricklayer in the countryside and married a smart woman. When they were young, the couple didn't want to work on the land all their lives, so they followed the crowd of migrant workers into the city and worked on projects for construction companies. When they first came to the city, Lao Chen worked as a laborer and his wife worked as an assistant for him. The couple worked together in perfect harmony. Because my wife is strong and has great strength, she can walk on the scaffolding as if it were flat ground, so her coworkers jokingly call her a "female tomboy". Seeing that Lao Chen and his wife worked hard and did a good job, the leaders of the construction company promoted Lao Chen from team leader to construction team leader and he became a regular employee of the company.

The construction industry was making relatively lucrative profits at that time, and after saving some money, Mr. and Mrs. Chen decided to start their own business. He selected several professional masters from the construction team as the backbone, formed an individual construction team, registered it under the name of a construction company, and contracted civil engineering projects. A few years later, several old friends registered a joint-stock construction engineering company. He became the executive director and general manager, his "tomboy" wife was in charge of finance, and all the company's employees were men.

Lao Chen said: "It is easy for men to become cheap when they have money. During the half year when my wife gave birth to our daughter and left the company, I thought it would be convenient to secretly support a young and beautiful woman." But he forgot the saying "No one knows a man better than his wife." His wife not only quickly saw through his thoughts, but also knew that only by controlling money can a man's lower body be controlled. So, when Lao Chen was consciously looking for an affair partner, she ordered him to report the company's accounts to her once a month. Lao Chen said: "It would have been fine if she had just reported the expenses, but my wife would often make surprise attacks, bringing her daughter to the company every now and then to check the accounts." It takes money to support a mistress, and Lao Chen couldn't spend his money casually, so he temporarily put his plan to cheat on his wife on hold.

Old Chen said he didn't believe in evil, thinking that the devil is always stronger than the good, so how could a grown man be controlled by his wife? He was still determined to steal money from the treasury, so he secretly set up a small treasury and tried every means to siphon money from it. Just when the treasury had accumulated to double digits, his wife seemed to smell something and wanted to hire a nanny to take care of the children while she went back to work in the company. Old Chen thought, it doesn't matter if his wife comes back to work, but the matter of the secret fund must not be exposed, otherwise his plan to support a woman will be ruined, and he might even get beaten up by his wife. To this end, Lao Chen specifically explained the confidentiality of the small treasury to Xiao Zhao, the financial officer.

The "tomboy" came to the finance office on the first day back to work at the company. After asking about Xiao Zhao's well-being, she suddenly asked: "How much money have you saved in the small treasury?" Xiao Zhao didn't react for a moment and casually said the number. When Xiao Zhao understood what had happened, he realized that he had made trouble and reported the situation to Lao Chen. After returning home at night, the "tomboy" asked Lao Chen why he set up a slush fund. He had to lie to her and said, "We use this money to bribe the relevant superior departments." Lao Chen didn't ask any more questions, but just said casually, "We haven't held a shareholders' meeting for half a year. Let's hold a shareholders' meeting tomorrow afternoon to inform the shareholders of the company's situation, so that the shareholders can rest assured." Lao Chen agreed readily and issued a meeting notice when he arrived at the company the next morning.

The shareholders' meeting in the afternoon went smoothly. Lao Chen reported on the company's operating conditions, and the shareholders all praised him for his good management. Just when the smug Old Chen was announcing the adjournment of the meeting, the "female macho" made an impromptu motion: "Dear shareholders, the company has developed rapidly in recent years, and its financial resources have become increasingly solid. It is not conducive to supervision for one person to hold the positions of executive director and general manager. I suggest that a resolution be passed to add the position of chairman. If you trust me, I will take this position." His wife's suggestion made sense. Old Chen was unhappy but had no reason to object. In addition, he was afraid of having his slush fund held hostage, so he had to agree with his wife's opinion. The other directors didn’t care. Since the Chen family held the controlling stake, they naturally applauded and passed it. Lao Chen’s secret piggy bank was gone, and his plan to keep a woman was once again ruined by his wife.

After the "female macho" became the chairman of the board, she became the direct superior of the general manager and completely deprived Lao Chen of his financial power. Spending money had to be reported to the chairman's wife for approval. Why support a woman when you have no money? Half a year later, Lao Chen finally thought of a solution, so he suggested to the chairman's wife: "It is becoming increasingly difficult to get engineering projects nowadays. Can we hire a female public relations officer?" The wife said: "The manager's suggestion is very good. I'll ask you to find one." Lao Chen did not expect his wife to be so straightforward, and he quickly poached a young and beautiful catering manager from the hotel to serve as the company's vice president, who was specifically responsible for the company's social public relations work.

Old Chen thought that this time he had the best chance of getting her. The beautiful female vice president was his direct subordinate, so it should be no problem for him to have her as his secret lover with a little inducement. The key was that he didn't have to pay for hiring her. Unexpectedly, on the morning when the female vice president reported for work, the chairman's wife said she wanted to get together and give her a welcome dinner, and asked Lao Chen to arrange the place. In the evening, Lao Chen was the main companion and his wife was the secondary companion. When it was the deputy companion's turn to serve wine, she said, "Dear colleagues, our company only has one girl, Xiao Chen, and she is very beautiful. You men are not allowed to bully her. My mother and I have agreed this afternoon that from today on she is the goddaughter of the general manager and me!" When Old Chen heard this, he almost fainted. Lao Chen said: "I have completely convinced my wife. From now on, the only thing left for me to do is talk."

Men's infidelity can cause great harm to a marriage. Although men are animals with lower bodies and don't need many reasons to cheat, they still show many abnormal behaviors. Mr. Chen's three planned affairs were all discovered and stopped in time by his wife, which shows that there is still a lot that women can do to prevent their husbands from cheating. The key is to understand men, get to know your husband well, and make preventing your husband from cheating an important part of managing your marriage. Many emotional experts have analyzed and studied men's infidelity, and have listed many abnormal behaviors of men before and after they infidelity. What women need to do is to capture these abnormal messages in time and take measures to nip their husband's extramarital affair in the bud.