The top ten flaws of Chinese women: superstition, fear of aging, and self-pity. Do you have any experience with them?

Although Chinese culture has a history of about 5,000 years, women in the early days did not have much status in the long river of history. Therefore, under the influence of history, Chinese women still have many shortcomings. Do you have any of the ten major shortcomings of Chinese women: superstition, fear of aging, and self-pity?

According to a workplace survey, it is easy for Chinese women to be promoted to middle-level management, but only a few can reach senior management positions because there is a "glass ceiling" above our heads that is difficult to detect but always exists: our "female identity."

1. Chinese women don’t know how to love themselves

It is not easy for Chinese women to catch up to what they are today within 100 years for a course that has been missed for thousands of years. However, since the performance of this course is closely related to happiness, only 60 points is far from enough.

The simplest example is to look at the amount of time and money Chinese women spend on their "underwear" and "outerwear" respectively. Don't be fooled by the "self" that some seemingly proud women today keep talking about. No matter how much she believes in and yearns for something that more than three people around her oppose, she will often suddenly become doubtful.

Of course, this stems from the education we received since childhood: "A lady is one who puts her responsibility to others above her own rights as a human being." Perhaps even more infuriating is that, when this generation of Chinese women grew up, they heard the truth that “if the skin is gone, where will the hair be attached?” Therefore, we often tear our own souls and bodies apart with our own hands in a moment of sudden realization and a smile.

2. Chinese women are superstitious about love

Love is the everlasting flower in the hearts of women all over the world. In the United States, the best-selling women's books on the market all start with "Howto": Howto attract a man's attention in 3 minutes, Howto give him an unforgettable night, Howto keep him for a lifetime... A very exciting and interesting game. But for Chinese women, love has become a serious business, its importance even exceeds life itself.

After finally realizing that the above behavior is as stupid as waiting for a rabbit to come to you, you fall into the quagmire of "Why can't I find a rich man who loves me and whom I love" and can't extricate yourself like a weed. Of course, it would be best, no, it must be added with "a happy sex life" - if you insist on putting dogs, cats, and mice in a cage and want them to thrive, isn't this just asking for trouble?

3. Chinese women are too afraid of getting old

Of course, there is no woman who is not afraid of aging - the classic joke "A: My sister and I are 60 years old in total. B: Oh, are you sure you want to leave such a young sister alone at home?" did not come from China. However, in the 21st century, there are few groups that are more afraid of aging than Chinese women.

In recent years, major cosmetics brands around the world have added Chinese instructions to their products, because sales in the Chinese market are surpassing Japan to become number one in Asia - or maybe Chinese women's salary is only 8,000 yuan per month, but this does not prevent us from buying face creams that cost more than 4,000 yuan a bottle without blinking an eye. Even though a life of desperate money-making will make us age faster, but... let's focus on the present.

No one - Chinese men - cares about the soul of a Chinese woman.

4. Chinese women love to feel sorry for themselves

Making an impassioned speech at the company's top meeting, winning over the most difficult client in one fell swoop, flying halfway around the world in two weeks... perhaps Chinese women have all done it, but when the dead of night comes and the beauties are alone, seeing their exhausted faces in the mirror, the pace of these powerful Chinese women becomes more consistent: "Hey, I'm just a woman, what am I trying to do?" All their heroic spirit is instantly reduced to a residual wave.

According to a workplace survey, it is easy for Chinese women to be promoted to middle-level management, but only a few can reach senior management positions because there is a "glass ceiling" above our heads that is difficult to detect but always exists: our "female identity." "It's not easy for a girl to do this!" Does this sound familiar? Yes, this is the highest praise that the more outstanding Chinese girls can hear since childhood. As for those who performed mediocrely: "It doesn't matter, at least they are girls."

5. Chinese women lack charm

Chinese women often complain: romance is the fatal flaw of Chinese men. But in fact, the root of romance was cut off from Chinese women.

Let’s first talk about the definition of romance in the minds of Chinese women. Moonlight, stars, rose petals and raindrops? No, not unless you are standing on the deck of a luxury yacht. That is to say, what Chinese women think of as romance is built on a considerable material foundation. No one is more aware than them that a cold and shabby kiln cannot shelter from wind and rain, and a good kiln in today's Chinese cities costs at least 5,000 yuan per square meter. And a kiln of less than 100 square meters? Sorry, that's a cellar. The important task of building a good kiln is of course the responsibility of "macho men" - to be fair, if a man carries bricks all day and then goes home to sing and dance under the moonlight at night... that is clearly a disregard for human life. Even if they live in a good house, the charm index of Chinese women is still questionable - who can we blame? We have never learned this lesson. Magazines talk about flirting all the time, but there are very few Chinese women who can actually flirt.

6. Chinese women are keen on comparison

Although they know that "comparison will only make you angry", Chinese women love to compare: their backgrounds, skin color, bust size, the number of people turning back to look at them, their alma mater, their positions, their incomes, and the seat numbers they sit in when attending fashion shows...The most pitiful are Chinese men, who are completely exposed by the comparisons made by Chinese women.

The result of comparison is undoubtedly sadness and anger - don't worry, there is always someone better than you. So I became jealous. The jealousy of Chinese women is often not the so-called inspiring "white jealousy", but the ugly and vicious "black jealousy" of "I can't do anything to you". The saddest or funniest thing is that if a man cheats, the person Chinese women resent the most is not the selfish, irresponsible man, but the person she wants to kill with her hair disheveled and her teeth gnashed, and it is often the mostly innocent woman.

7. Chinese women are overly sensitive

In the cafe, two Chinese girls were chatting: "Li Li, your coat is very beautiful!" The other one smiled and said, "Why, I am not?"

A meticulous mind is the result of the long-standing Eastern culture. It is neither good nor bad. A mind is like a sieve. Although its small aperture can easily let in some boredom, it can also help to catch happiness. Chinese women often blame Chinese men for not knowing how to appreciate women's complexity and sensitivity, and instead, they think that silly girls like Miriam Yeung are more popular. In fact, it is not that Chinese men are shallow, but that Chinese women often lose the second function of "small-mindedness", making themselves play the tragic Lin Daiyu for free - looking at the end of Lin Daiyu, dare they not change their ways quickly?

8. Chinese women are vain and greedy

I don't think this is a patent of Chinese women - look at the abundance of brand-name shoes worn by Carrie in "Sex and the City", but there is no doubt that Chinese women have carried this trend forward very thoroughly.

Or maybe it’s because we are not rich enough. When choosing a romantic partner, no one attaches more importance to economic conditions than Chinese women. If Chinese women born in the 1970s were still a little hesitant about this, then those born in 1980 would simply like to have the seven gold-plated characters "I want to marry a billionaire" engraved on their heads. Of course, this is more normal than aiming to marry a pauper. In any case, when two men with similar natural conditions stand together, the one driving a BMW is much more pleasing to the eye. There is no law or regulation in this world that prohibits money from being the primary or even sufficient condition in choosing a spouse. The problem is: many women, after getting what they want, often fall into another, deeper sadness.

9. Chinese women tend to blame themselves

Because of her beauty, Zhenzhen was often followed by strange boys when she was in middle school. When she asked her father for help, the response she got was: "Did you wink at them? Look at you, you are dressed so ostentatiously!" Even though she thought her father was unreasonable, Zhenzhen always blamed herself every time she encountered sexual harassment after she grew up: "Was it because I was wearing revealing clothes and talking frivolously? Anyway, it's all my fault that I don't look like a good woman!"

It is undoubtedly a blessing to have the virtue of self-reflection, at least it can make people maintain a pair of peaceful eyes towards the world. But if you put all the responsibilities on yourself without knowing right or wrong - this case did not succeed, although there were other reasons, but it was mainly because of me that I did not do so; when he left me, although he repeatedly emphasized that it was his own reasons, it was ultimately because I was not good enough... it was clearly a slow suicide. Chinese women need to learn to be a little more "selfish": At least next time, I won't make the same mistake again; that stupid man leaving me is a huge loss for him and even his descendants, haha... No one is obligated to forgive you, except yourself.

10. Chinese women love to gossip about others

There are so many beautiful things in this world that are worth discussing and sharing, but when two or more Chinese women get together, their conversation turns to the gossip of others.

If you put yourself in her shoes, you will know that this is not a good thing to do, but it seems like there is a mechanism in your body that will make it slip away if you are not careful. It should be said that this is an inherent human nature, otherwise why has "scandal" become a kind of "economy" nowadays? But given that the more messed up a woman's own life is, the more she likes to gossip about others - mainly "gossip" in order to elevate herself and seek psychological balance, I think it is necessary to invent something like a "barking-preventing dog" for Chinese women who have this hobby - a collar worn around the dog's neck, which will suddenly tighten as soon as the dog barks - so that the dog can be splashed with water or given an electric shock as soon as it sticks out its tongue.