There will be surprising changes after the man and woman have sex

There is a saying that goes, "Once you enter a wealthy family, it's like entering the deep sea." Today, the editor wants to say, "Once you enter the bridal chamber, it's like entering the deep sea." Many people, especially married netizens, will have this feeling. Whether men or women, they have changed more or less before and after marriage. Next, I will tell you about the changes in men and women before and after the bridal chamber.

Changes in men and women before and after the wedding

1. Before the wedding, people long for a long-lasting relationship, but after the wedding, they question how long it can last.

A relationship with marriage as a prerequisite is always full of various imaginations about future life. However, plans often cannot keep up with changes. Therefore, those romantic actions fantasized before marriage will be overturned by the reality of the daily necessities of life after marriage. For this reason, men and women who enter the besieged city will be disappointed with their married life to some extent, and may even secretly ask themselves in their hearts how long they can last such a boring life.

2. Before the wedding, the man waits for the woman in the restaurant, and after the wedding, the woman waits for the man in the living room.

When a man is in the stage of love, in order to prevent the duck from flying away, he will be very attentive to the woman. Especially on every date, he will pretend to be punctual and wait for his beloved girl in the restaurant early. However, after marriage, the man will take off the armor of putting women before friendship and say that men need all kinds of social engagements. For this reason, it evolves into the situation that when the man is drunk, the woman waits in the living room.

3. Before the wedding night, men often consult with women, but after the wedding night, men only tell women the conclusion.

Men in love, in order to show that they care about their lovers, will consult their lovers on many things, and usually will not go against the will of their lovers on things that have not been agreed upon. However, after marriage, men will think that as men, they should have their so-called freedom, especially in many things, and will occasionally inform their lovers of some decisions. This is not out of kindness, but a conclusion.

4. There are endless sweet words before the wedding, but lies after the wedding

Men become more and more shy as they grow older. Before marriage, the words "I miss you" and "I love you" that they often say on the phone or in text messages will tend to disappear as the marriage progresses. Sometimes women, in order to liven up the atmosphere, force men to say sweet words like "I love you", and the men will then say "We are already an old married couple, why are you still saying these things", and some men will impatiently say "Don't you feel how good I am to you?"

5. Before the wedding, men touch women, but after the wedding, men don’t touch women

When men are in the stage of love, they will not let go of any opportunity to "invade" women, and they would like to live with women before marriage. At that time, men are full of curiosity and yearning for women's bodies. However, as the marriage progresses, men will become numb towards their wives. Apart from the instinctive sexual life, let alone touching women on weekdays, they even feel it is a burden for women to cling to their arms when they go out on the street.

6. Whatever a woman does before the wedding is romantic, but whatever she does after the wedding is a waste

A woman's emotional world is always delicate, because she is more sensitive to some important festivals. Men in love will make a big fuss on Valentine's Day or their lover's birthday, and call it "romance". However, it is difficult for married women to receive gifts or decent gifts on Valentine's Day. This is because men become pragmatic after marriage and believe that giving flowers and plants is a waste.

7. Kiss before the wedding, bicker after the wedding

Often, we see some young men and women kissing each other in some corners of the street, but it is rare to see married men and women kissing on the street. It’s not that married men and women have become bolder, but that they lack the leisure and elegance. During the period of love, men will carry chewing gum with them in order to achieve the purpose of kissing at any time. Married men are more likely to quarrel with their wives.

8. Before the wedding, the man stares at the woman, and after the wedding, the woman stares at the man

Before marriage, men are like dog-skin plasters, very clingy, and even feel like they have lost their souls if they don’t see their beloved girl for a day. In fact, women also enjoy this care. However, after marriage, men will immediately stop being clingy to women, and then it is the women's turn to cling to men. However, men often do not appreciate it and even regard women's clingy behavior as blatant surveillance.

9. Before the wedding, they hope to find a good relationship in the next life, but after the wedding, they suspect that they created a bad relationship in the previous life.

Men and women in love believe that they are made for each other, and especially when they are separated, they will rack their brains to hug each other tightly and swear to be husband and wife in the next life. However, men and women in marriage will forget the beauty of their time together, and will question and complain about their marriage because of the bumps in life, and will unscrupulously say to each other: What sin did I commit in my last life to deserve to be with you?

10. Lies before the wedding are all love words, but love words after the wedding are all nonsense

Before marriage, for example, if a man wants to play with his buddies, he will beg the woman to say, "Baby, my buddy is in a bad mood today, I want to go and comfort him, you have to remember to be good." After marriage, when the man is not at home, he does not feel the slightest bit of guilt for his wife's loneliness, and believes that men should be wild animals. He even thinks it is nonsense to report to his wife.